If he did change his mind, a vasectomy is more* (keyword, MORE, not COMPLETELY 100%) reversible than you getting your tubes tied. At 47 I wouldnt be worried about him changing his mind, he’s probably thought about it for awhile and if hes never wanted kids he’ll probably stick to that.
Just know, you can still get pregnant after a vasectomy up to 2 weeks after its performed so try to plan that into it. You can also get pregnant on your period depending on how your cycle works so just be careful with that.
All in all, if it’s something he wants to do I wouldnt worry about it. I wouldnt view it as a grand gesture, just something that makes his life easier.
I think it’s rude not to invite someone in if they’re popping by, especially if they’re doing something nice for you. I was taught to offer a visitor a cup of tea or coffee.
And I’m an introvert and I’d still be polite and welcoming.
The fact that you ask 3 to 4 times before she gives in is worrying. That's coercion. Accept her no.
If he did change his mind, a vasectomy is more* (keyword, MORE, not COMPLETELY 100%) reversible than you getting your tubes tied. At 47 I wouldnt be worried about him changing his mind, he’s probably thought about it for awhile and if hes never wanted kids he’ll probably stick to that.
Just know, you can still get pregnant after a vasectomy up to 2 weeks after its performed so try to plan that into it. You can also get pregnant on your period depending on how your cycle works so just be careful with that.
All in all, if it’s something he wants to do I wouldnt worry about it. I wouldnt view it as a grand gesture, just something that makes his life easier.
I think it’s rude not to invite someone in if they’re popping by, especially if they’re doing something nice for you. I was taught to offer a visitor a cup of tea or coffee.
And I’m an introvert and I’d still be polite and welcoming.
The fact that you immediately assumed it was your boyfriend hints that this isn't a healthy situation