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It’s not fundamentally about culture, it’s about trust. It doesn’t matter what other people have done— if you trust him that he sees her as his cousin, then that should be the end of it.
Do you always think ‘what if’ when he spends time with a female friend or with his cousin even if she’s not staying with you? Why?
That's really good. I hope she understands, though, that this can never happen again. She can't keep being a bitch, blaming it on insecurity, apologizing, and then being a bitch to your kid again in a couple of months because she's insecure again. She needs to be given one notice about this, which you gave her, and then the next incident she needs to be out.
Look maybe if the GF was like trying to murder her BF then fine, whisk him away but she just sounds rude. Just let them love each other, maybe you don’t see everything they do together
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You need to speak with the police. You need to let them know that he has threatened your life and threaten the lives and property of others. And then you need to get away from this guy, you need to warn your family members and your friends.
Yes, yes it is. Not only is she a spoilt bully, but someone who would play the victim using the story of the very victims she bullied. Even worse, they are her family.
Not sure what redeeming fearure you see in her, because other that perhaps money or looks, she's not beautiful within.
Why would you blame her mother and tell her she needs therapy over a fight about chores and being helpful?
Your wife is isolated- she is home with a new baby- and now has gone NC with her mother, which it sounds like something you agree with. Yet at the first conflict, you throw her unsupportive mother in her face, as if she is supposed to do…what exactly? She already went NC so what was the point of bringing this up?
She is stress, you are stressed, this isn't necessarily a mental health struggle, this is called bringing a tiny tornado in to a home and relearning how to exist. Every couple has this moment, but instead of using all you learned in therapy to be constructive, diffuse, or just sleep on it, you went straight for the biggest sore spot your wife has right now.
I'm sure you each have very valid points as to the conflict and are both overtired and stressed. But the point is you went to a deep cut that wasn't even about what you were arguing about- she says you don't do enough, you respond that if her mother was supportive everything would be fine. I don't even believe your apology, because you STILL in your summary point at that her mother is “supposed to be supportive” but not only is that not true- a supportive mom is great by not central to you having a child- but her mother isn't supportive, so there is nothing constructive about that point of view.
So she set a topic aside as a sensitive one and you’re still making jokes about it? That’s telling her she can’t trust you to be empathetic to her concerns or respect her boundaries. You’re not being trust worthy because you’re continuing to make light of something she’s reserved as a serious topic. This isn’t about controlling you. This is about you respecting that it’s not a topic to joke about. It’s about respecting her.
It’s not fundamentally about culture, it’s about trust. It doesn’t matter what other people have done— if you trust him that he sees her as his cousin, then that should be the end of it.
Do you always think ‘what if’ when he spends time with a female friend or with his cousin even if she’s not staying with you? Why?
That's really good. I hope she understands, though, that this can never happen again. She can't keep being a bitch, blaming it on insecurity, apologizing, and then being a bitch to your kid again in a couple of months because she's insecure again. She needs to be given one notice about this, which you gave her, and then the next incident she needs to be out.
Look maybe if the GF was like trying to murder her BF then fine, whisk him away but she just sounds rude. Just let them love each other, maybe you don’t see everything they do together
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You need to speak with the police. You need to let them know that he has threatened your life and threaten the lives and property of others. And then you need to get away from this guy, you need to warn your family members and your friends.
Yes, yes it is. Not only is she a spoilt bully, but someone who would play the victim using the story of the very victims she bullied. Even worse, they are her family.
Not sure what redeeming fearure you see in her, because other that perhaps money or looks, she's not beautiful within.
i think you might need to be more direct and tell Abe that Steve seems to be actively trying to get with you/break you two up.
Why would you blame her mother and tell her she needs therapy over a fight about chores and being helpful?
Your wife is isolated- she is home with a new baby- and now has gone NC with her mother, which it sounds like something you agree with. Yet at the first conflict, you throw her unsupportive mother in her face, as if she is supposed to do…what exactly? She already went NC so what was the point of bringing this up?
She is stress, you are stressed, this isn't necessarily a mental health struggle, this is called bringing a tiny tornado in to a home and relearning how to exist. Every couple has this moment, but instead of using all you learned in therapy to be constructive, diffuse, or just sleep on it, you went straight for the biggest sore spot your wife has right now.
I'm sure you each have very valid points as to the conflict and are both overtired and stressed. But the point is you went to a deep cut that wasn't even about what you were arguing about- she says you don't do enough, you respond that if her mother was supportive everything would be fine. I don't even believe your apology, because you STILL in your summary point at that her mother is “supposed to be supportive” but not only is that not true- a supportive mom is great by not central to you having a child- but her mother isn't supportive, so there is nothing constructive about that point of view.
So she set a topic aside as a sensitive one and you’re still making jokes about it? That’s telling her she can’t trust you to be empathetic to her concerns or respect her boundaries. You’re not being trust worthy because you’re continuing to make light of something she’s reserved as a serious topic. This isn’t about controlling you. This is about you respecting that it’s not a topic to joke about. It’s about respecting her.