Maybe you both can sit down and try to hash out a potential budget? That way both of you can share with one another your ideas and plans on how to afford living together. You guys are married and you have every right to ask your husband what his plans are to afford living together, and he shouldn't be offended that his wife is asking him about finances. Discussing finances and figuring our a budget is literally what every single healthy married couple does. If he gets offended when you ask your husband his freaking budget plan, then you're in for a rough ride.
Also why is your friend asking you to buy her sex toys?
Maybe you both can sit down and try to hash out a potential budget? That way both of you can share with one another your ideas and plans on how to afford living together. You guys are married and you have every right to ask your husband what his plans are to afford living together, and he shouldn't be offended that his wife is asking him about finances. Discussing finances and figuring our a budget is literally what every single healthy married couple does. If he gets offended when you ask your husband his freaking budget plan, then you're in for a rough ride.