No big deal. If you looked into her messages with other dude, then you would be writing a very different post if they had been sexual in nature. Since they weren't (presumably) then I'm sure she just doesn't feel comfortable telling you she continues to have what sound like innocent conversations with other dude.
You should not have poked into her phone. But you know that already.
Start eating right, get fit, work on yourself. Once you've taken care of your own health you can deal with the issues with your girlfriend.
Wow, what a dad… Sorry, but it is hugely inconsiderate of your boyfriend not to tell you when he will be back when he is using YOUR car!! What if you want to make plans or need to go somewhere? Anyway, it is common courtesy to let the person you online with know what your plans are. You're not being controlling at all, it's like, maybe you want to spend time with your boyfriend?? Or even crazier, maybe you want to use your own car??
Seriously think you need to address the toxic men in your life.
Your time together should be worth more than to you having a black eye. If she really cared and loved you it wouldn’t matter. She is more concerned with how she and you look together than the relationship. You are like a damaged designer bag in her eyes. She doesn’t care about the bag, just how it looks in public.
You tell him “I love you, and you’re great, but we’re just not right for each other.” And break off the engagement.
I mean you ARE gonna leave and never come back. Can’t really be purely platonic friends with someone you were gonna marry. If he asks you to reconsider, tell him your decision is final.
You aren’t happy, and it’s better to cut it off now, so you can both find someone you are compatible with.
did he lose his job in the last 19 days according to your post about how to cook when both partners work? you even mention you feel bad because he does all the cooking and you and your mom are used to instant type junk food…
It's best she makes that decision with the correct information.
I dont typically advise getting involved in people's business, but his spying is very over the top and could potentially be dangerous.
Also, if she wanted to heal the marriage she won't be having an affair.
No big deal. If you looked into her messages with other dude, then you would be writing a very different post if they had been sexual in nature. Since they weren't (presumably) then I'm sure she just doesn't feel comfortable telling you she continues to have what sound like innocent conversations with other dude.
You should not have poked into her phone. But you know that already.
Start eating right, get fit, work on yourself. Once you've taken care of your own health you can deal with the issues with your girlfriend.
Wow, what a dad… Sorry, but it is hugely inconsiderate of your boyfriend not to tell you when he will be back when he is using YOUR car!! What if you want to make plans or need to go somewhere? Anyway, it is common courtesy to let the person you online with know what your plans are. You're not being controlling at all, it's like, maybe you want to spend time with your boyfriend?? Or even crazier, maybe you want to use your own car??
Seriously think you need to address the toxic men in your life.
It hurts a lot especially because I am responsible for all of this, but I can only move on and learn the lesson now.
You didn't put a gun to both of their heads and force them to have sex at gunpoint.
That's on your girlfriend for being shitty and petty.
Your time together should be worth more than to you having a black eye. If she really cared and loved you it wouldn’t matter. She is more concerned with how she and you look together than the relationship. You are like a damaged designer bag in her eyes. She doesn’t care about the bag, just how it looks in public.
You tell him “I love you, and you’re great, but we’re just not right for each other.” And break off the engagement.
I mean you ARE gonna leave and never come back. Can’t really be purely platonic friends with someone you were gonna marry. If he asks you to reconsider, tell him your decision is final.
You aren’t happy, and it’s better to cut it off now, so you can both find someone you are compatible with.
did he lose his job in the last 19 days according to your post about how to cook when both partners work? you even mention you feel bad because he does all the cooking and you and your mom are used to instant type junk food…
She sounds like a stalker.