I'm reminded of a story about a family where one child got everyone DNA tests for Christmas and the mom went white as a ghost. She kept saying that it was a waste of money and that only one of you needed to do the test. It got quite tense and she locked herself in her bedroom. the dad went up and after half an hour brought her back down. The eldest daughter had a different father.
The mom was with someone and he died when she was pregnant. While still pregnant she met the man who was everyone else's father. He accepted the eldest as his own and had happily been her dad without anyone knowing Mom's secret. Until the OP bought DNA tests for everyone.
I'm on board with everyone you've mentioned and I do all the things you said. I always try to keep it respectful. I even agreed to let him track my location on his phone so he won't worry so much when I’m out. But if he keeps trying to control me, I might have to give him an ultimatum. It's just not cool when I feel like I can't be myself.
I'm not sure what he told his family, I only saw them a handful of times at the holidays.
Leave. He's emotionally abusive and honestly displays signs it may get physical.
That's what therapists are for.
I'm reminded of a story about a family where one child got everyone DNA tests for Christmas and the mom went white as a ghost. She kept saying that it was a waste of money and that only one of you needed to do the test. It got quite tense and she locked herself in her bedroom. the dad went up and after half an hour brought her back down. The eldest daughter had a different father.
The mom was with someone and he died when she was pregnant. While still pregnant she met the man who was everyone else's father. He accepted the eldest as his own and had happily been her dad without anyone knowing Mom's secret. Until the OP bought DNA tests for everyone.
I'm on board with everyone you've mentioned and I do all the things you said. I always try to keep it respectful. I even agreed to let him track my location on his phone so he won't worry so much when I’m out. But if he keeps trying to control me, I might have to give him an ultimatum. It's just not cool when I feel like I can't be myself.