First the distancing and anger at you. Yeah, for that I would just go NC.
Second the copying – ignore it unless she’s trying to actually insert herself in your life. Take it as a compliment. When coupled with NC, it doesn’t matter anyway.
Why? That’s just more stupidity. She’s toxic af. Get rid and heal and see a therapist. The fact that you tolerated that madness is extremely concerning. You need space and healing. She sounds like a cluster B nightmare, and you don’t seem to realise how bad and messed up this actually is.
Sounds like she jumped at a chance to end this relationship, albeit preemptively. You should definitely take the interview, and the job should they offer it.
Yes it absolutely does matter! There is an entire world of difference between asking someone out and asking someone to be your on demand fuck buddy, and if you still can’t see that, then you’ve learned nothing.
I can guarantee this drama wouldn’t have been happening if you’d just asked her out for lunch. She would probably still have rejected you, but she wouldn’t be as hurt and humiliated and you wouldn’t have come off as a giant creep.
Your poor daughter. Your husband IS being an AH here.
Inviting a few friends is normal. Don’t cave to him. Let your mom confront him if need be. He’s being ridiculous, and your daughter only gets to have fun kid birthday parties with friends for a short time.
Further contact just encourages this guy. If you are really his friend, you'll cut him loose so he'll focus on other women.
This has already gone on too long. You allowed him to waste his time.
You've been hit on since you were 14yo. You know better.
There’s two issues here, not one.
First the distancing and anger at you. Yeah, for that I would just go NC.
Second the copying – ignore it unless she’s trying to actually insert herself in your life. Take it as a compliment. When coupled with NC, it doesn’t matter anyway.
Why? That’s just more stupidity. She’s toxic af. Get rid and heal and see a therapist. The fact that you tolerated that madness is extremely concerning. You need space and healing. She sounds like a cluster B nightmare, and you don’t seem to realise how bad and messed up this actually is.
Is he a car salesman?
Sounds like she jumped at a chance to end this relationship, albeit preemptively. You should definitely take the interview, and the job should they offer it.
Yes it absolutely does matter! There is an entire world of difference between asking someone out and asking someone to be your on demand fuck buddy, and if you still can’t see that, then you’ve learned nothing.
I can guarantee this drama wouldn’t have been happening if you’d just asked her out for lunch. She would probably still have rejected you, but she wouldn’t be as hurt and humiliated and you wouldn’t have come off as a giant creep.
Absolutely. I’m glad you were able to leave your past relationship, by the way. ?
Don’t be afraid of some competition. May the best woman win!!!
Don’t be afraid of some competition. May the best woman win!!!
Your poor daughter. Your husband IS being an AH here.
Inviting a few friends is normal. Don’t cave to him. Let your mom confront him if need be. He’s being ridiculous, and your daughter only gets to have fun kid birthday parties with friends for a short time.