Don’t be so hot on yourself hun. It’s perfectly fine if you’re not in a mental place to deal with this right now and need some time before you bite the bullet. You are perfect as you are, and anyone who would tell you otherwise is only doing so for their gain. I hope things clear up for you soon. Stay strong, and remember that you are beautiful.
100% agree with this comment. My husband is all of these things and neurodivergent, and I think that combination has made friendships next to impossible for him.
You are asking him to control how other people act around him. He has no control over that, the same way you have no control over him, his actions, or his thoughts and feelings.
Your buds for control are… controlling. Abusive. Stalkerish. Scary. He's right to tell you he may leave. He might, because your behavior escalates.
Your intrusive thoughts will consume you eventually and you will be a monster neither you nor he recognizes any more. You need to get some therapy to get yourself under control before you do or cause something you will regret forever.
Don’t be so hot on yourself hun. It’s perfectly fine if you’re not in a mental place to deal with this right now and need some time before you bite the bullet. You are perfect as you are, and anyone who would tell you otherwise is only doing so for their gain. I hope things clear up for you soon. Stay strong, and remember that you are beautiful.
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Absolutely, it’ll slowly increase in severity until the point you’ve reached full blown blatant abuse wondering how the f you got there
100% agree with this comment. My husband is all of these things and neurodivergent, and I think that combination has made friendships next to impossible for him.
You are asking him to control how other people act around him. He has no control over that, the same way you have no control over him, his actions, or his thoughts and feelings.
Your buds for control are… controlling. Abusive. Stalkerish. Scary. He's right to tell you he may leave. He might, because your behavior escalates.
Your intrusive thoughts will consume you eventually and you will be a monster neither you nor he recognizes any more. You need to get some therapy to get yourself under control before you do or cause something you will regret forever.