Armchair diagnosing kinda comes with posting on subs like these. You’re posting very private and sensitive info and asking strangers, who don’t know you or your family, for their help and advice. Not sure what else you were expecting tbh
Either you’re leaving out key details here or your situation is way too complex for Reddit to handle. Therapy would be a good option for either scenario
I'd confront her 100% well not confront her as such just message her, say hey I wanted to formally introduce myself as my boyfriend (hisname) is flying to meet his son and we are going to be in each others lives, he talking out his arse about the child support thing it doesn't get effected by dating someone so it wouldn't change, it goes of the working wage he earns ??♀️ he talking shit to you, and 100% going to go there and never come back, which is why I said at beginning message her what I said don't leave it to him, and then tell him that fact he hasn't told her, is making you question whether you will be here when he gets back. He doesn't need to lying to maintain a relationship with his kid, he stringing you along honey
Armchair diagnosing kinda comes with posting on subs like these. You’re posting very private and sensitive info and asking strangers, who don’t know you or your family, for their help and advice. Not sure what else you were expecting tbh
Either you’re leaving out key details here or your situation is way too complex for Reddit to handle. Therapy would be a good option for either scenario
I'd confront her 100% well not confront her as such just message her, say hey I wanted to formally introduce myself as my boyfriend (hisname) is flying to meet his son and we are going to be in each others lives, he talking out his arse about the child support thing it doesn't get effected by dating someone so it wouldn't change, it goes of the working wage he earns ??♀️ he talking shit to you, and 100% going to go there and never come back, which is why I said at beginning message her what I said don't leave it to him, and then tell him that fact he hasn't told her, is making you question whether you will be here when he gets back. He doesn't need to lying to maintain a relationship with his kid, he stringing you along honey