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Nude at goal/10 if you think I’m cute/ PVT ON!!! [341 tokens remaining]
Date: November 28, 2022
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Nude at goal/10 if you think I’m cute/ PVT ON!!! [341 tokens remaining]
And you are very pro-“life” until it’s life’s outside of the womb. What about the existing children she can’t be a decent mother to in the first place and what about the father who least is justified in worrying about aspects of finance and their existing family before bringing in another person into this mess and then messing that child up as well? But hey as long as they’re birthed your job is done? Who gives a shit after. Life in quotations because it’s clearly not life that you care about but forced birth.
And why now? You've been dating for 2 years, and you NEVER thought about mentioning this concert BEFORE buying tickets with your brother and friend? You didn't even ask her if she wanted to come?
It isn't good that you feel like this. You should not feel like you are usually the “bad guy”. It doesn't seem like your GF is doing much to make you feel safe and secure in yourself and relationship.
I’ve been the girl with religious trauma related to sex. The first time my ex broke up with me was for this reason. I probably wasn’t the most considerate (due to religious messaging of thinking sex is not important to a relationship), but then we agreed to get back together. I don’t remember if the terms were that I was going to have sex, but I did. I ended up parting ways from Christianity on my own because it just created toxicity in my life. It still was a scary experience for me. Fast forward a couple months, my boyfriend fights with me nearly every day and starts picking me apart. There were a couple fights in which he would bring up the fact that he waited (it was completely unrelated to argument) ie “I had to wait HOW LONG just to have sex with you?!” Then the sex wasn’t good enough, then it wasn’t frequent enough. It became this very frightening thing for me wrapped up in all this shame. Religious + boyfriend shame. Then I became paranoid about getting pregnant and got on bc. It killed my sex drive. Our fights got worse; I didn’t have any more emotional intimacy with him anymore and it led to very long dry spells. He let his resentment be known to me, even at one point sort of claiming he wished he could cheat. We had maybe 1-2 healthy conversations about sex in almost 4 years. It was a disaster. OP, all of this to say – she could agree to have sex with you, but if any part of you resents her for it, please just break up. I’ve been that girl who begged her boyfriend to stay, and I regret it deeply. Just know that even if she decides to have sex, this might still have lasting repercussions on other aspects of your relationship. I’m not saying either you or her will be immature, but it’s possible. Good luck
Yes, exactly. You were very young as well when your first relationship started. My 15 year relationship was also my very first relationship and my ex is the one I had all my “firsts” with. So you can imagine that that ending was a dramatic change for my emotionally, and funding another person to talk to who had been through similar issues was a huge comfort to me. I'm fully independent now (and raise our son on my own) and my new relationship is very slow going and I have indicated that I am not ready to fully jump into another major thing like living together, etc. Being a single adult is wild these days, so I can definitely relate to wanting to jump right back into something not that long after. It's all about tempering expectations and ensuring you don't move too fast with the next one, and never, EVER, compare her to your ex in any way, even indirectly. Stay strong!
It may have been an accidental dial. You have no indication of anything wrong. And what could she really have accomplished in 3 seconds?
You’re extremely ableist. Have you tried to do what she enjoys with her? Stop dragging her along and let her find someone worthy of her.
Good. Change the locks and pile his stuff outside.
is what she did shitty? sure. is it okay to be upset? yeah. do you have any authority over who or when she dates now that your relationship is over? absolutely not. cute contact, unfollow, let it go. get therapy if you need to.
Atleast she started antidepressants and not a whole ass new romantic relationship behind my back.
Ughh sorry if this is insensitive.
You lied to your girlfriend and now she’s upset, and your conclusion is “guess I was right” lol? Honey… You’re too immature to be in a relationship.
I didn't even have to read this whole thing to know moving in is a bad idea. If you want to move out, find a roommate
She's looking after the kids and I've moved out
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If I was sufficiently taking care of myself then I feel like I wouldn’t be in this situation, or at such a crossroads.
You love this man, and you're falling for the sunk cost fallacy. At the same time, there's social pressure.
My inability to make an effective decision in this scenario shows I am struggling. I am trying my best to make the right decision to look after myself, but everything feels wrong.
Ending this relationship is clearly for the best.
General life advice: don't preemptively censor what you want because you expect to be rejected.
What did he resent about you?
And does he expect you to be grateful for it or something?
“My Bf likes to mess with people”
You mean he’s an asshole.
He’s not 8, tell him to stop “messing with people”.
Ah the old “just ask him rather than waste time making a Reddit post” idea
To even meet people they must now go through a rigorous vetting process to make sure they're trustworthy.
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You're probably right 🙁
(although the reason why they broke up is mostly me).
This statement is confusing, given your other comments about it being ' accidental ' and ' waited until they broke up' . Do you mean you flirted with him? Half jokingly said anything around the lines of ' if it doesn't work out call me ha ha ' or ' I wish I met you first ' ?
You know his head can be turned because you did it. You're now worried someone will do the same.
Assume you’re celibate then?
And no. Because as outline above consent to sex is not consent to pregnancy in most the world. All it is is an acceptance that there is a risk it may happen and you have whatever options legally available to you in those circumstances.
You’re welcome.
Youve had an abusive past and most likely are attracted to abusive partners as you find this a familiar situation which even as odd as it may sound, is comforting to you. Without professional help you will probably not break this cycle of abuse and will go from one controlling, abusive relationship to another. You may even be trauma bonded to this individual who you are now involved with as this is common among abusive, controlling relationships. I would strongly suggest you leave this relationship and begin therapy immediately with a mental health professional who specializes in abusive relationships. Even if there was never another physical altercation the damage being done to you psychologically and emotionally makes it imperative that you leave and get professional help.
Sounds like you need therapy to work through all the abuse you've experienced in your life, understand that your perspective of what is and isn't healthy has been skewed tremendously, the people in your life and the people commenting here are seeing it for what it actually is.
You are not in healthy enough place mentally to be in a romantic relationship with anyone and most definitely not in healthy enough place to be considering getting married or having kids. Get to place where you are taking care of your own mental health and where you are fully self-sufficient and then come back and tell us how badly you still want to be with this person who controlled your every move and physically harmed you.. I can promise you, you wont.
Oh, gosh. No. I met separate with zero intention of reconciliation. He needs to be a thing of the past, pronto.
you can't really do anything. Not everyone is going to want to date or sleep with a virgin. She was probably just making up whatever excuse to bounce.
You have terrible judgement in men. Take this time to improve on that so that you don’t have an altercation like this again.
You believe the trust that business entities have in professionals revolves around not speaking about confidential information, when in reality, they have trust in professionals to keep their information safe.
They need their information safe from competitors so they don’t lose a market advantage. They need their information safe from investors so there won’t be any market manipulation or trading on confidential information.
As a professional, it is in my discretion to divulge confidential information to anyone I see fit. I am held liable for who I share information with. If that info is misused, I have systems and contracts in place to hedge my exposure to criminal/civil liability.
If you think my dad needs a contract with my mom to make sure she doesn’t misuse that info, you are sorely mistaken.
Please update after that discussion
Thank you. Good take!
Flat out, she isn't attracted to you. Get over it and move on.
As someone who has been into fitness for a long time I can tell you one of the perks of being a PT is hooking up with clients.
So he needs your permission to buy a game butt you're asking if he's abusive?
Im (F19) home for a few weeks after surviving a school shooting, and my family just dropped the news that our house is being sold, so I’ve already been in a bit of a state- and losing my dog hit a lot harder.
Oh honey, I am so sorry. You’ve dealt with so much so quickly it would be totally normal to be feeling pretty raw right now.
You have every right to be upset that your bf didn’t come over to support you. Definitely don’t make any major decisions right now while you’re feeling emotional but do have a frank talk with him about how you’re feeling.
I hope things get better for you
Let's be real, if she would've told you that she had another love interest you'd react poorly. She knows that too, which is why she chose not to disclose it. Being dishonest was shitty, but it was also kind of shitty for you to request that she tells you about her love life. At this point, you should move on and find new friends and a girl that likes you.
J’ai appelé mes parents et je leur ai parlé d’en faire un avec toute la famille et elle m’a envoyé des messages plus tard en me disant de laisser tomber alors que mon père avait dis pourquoi pas
Hey OP. Let me focus you on the below excerpt from one of your recent comnents:
“I did not, nor ever was just, as you say, “hanging around her just to get my shot”. I was trying to be a genuine friend. Yes, I did have a hope that it may lead to more, but I never pushed for it.”
It appears to me you have been much less of a “genuine friend,” than you think you've been. Your romantic feelings are a “conflict of interest.” And while it's technically possible to govern yourself as a friend, you have not been doing that. Your hurt feelings have been governing you.
You aren't being at all helpful to this girl. You're just making everything worse for everyone. You seem fixated on this girl as if she is your limerent object.
I think your best bet is to withdraw from this relationship for a little while, and get a better grip on your emotional makeup as a person.
While he was rude about it, a little structure would go a long way. more people would be willing to read it and provide advice.
I know
Nope
What did you expect, when you broke someone else’s trust first.
You are both as bad as each other.
Good luck.
Unfortunately we can’t always fix people, especially when they’re unwilling to help themselves.