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Just Lucy, 19 y.o.
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Date: November 14, 2022
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FetLife isn't a dating site. And giving out her number to someone she said could be helpful to get in her work isn't a red flag.
The insecurities the dudes here are demonstrating is toxic. Either trust your partners or break up with them.
Nice rage bait post.
She's not currently medicating for depression. When she did, she felt worse. We went 7 months without intimacy when she was taking that medication. But it was essential, as just prior she'd unexpectedly melted down and threatened self-harm. It was over treatment of my youngest, my wife was… needlessly mean to her and it was extreme enough that I called her out on it in front of them right at that moment. She melted down when we got home (in private, the kids were occupied) and made some threats at which point I calmly explained that especially with children, I have to be extremely careful with how I respond to those kinds of threats. I needed proof she sought treatment because I couldn't just let it go.
That said, we have almost never fought in front of them. I can count on one hand the number of times the children have seen the two of us disagree with one another. But I do worry they're getting the wrong idea about a healthy romance. Though up until recently, I was still being “playful”, so at least giving them one partner's example to follow. But now I just feel… ill, off, when I think about it.
And really, almost no touch. Examples:
On a walk, she walks by herself unless I catch up and grab her hand. In the car, I have to do the “tap the console” thing to get her to hold my hand. She has never since dating, that I can remember, just walked up to me and given me a hug. She has never since dating, that I can remember, just walked up and kissed me. She does not like it when I would try to give a massage. She has never since dating, that I can remember, “led me to the bedroom.” She does not want to hear, and does not speak, since dating, anything sexual at any time including during sex. I don't think I've heard an unprompted compliment about my looks in 18 years, from her. Rarely I'll hear “that looks nice on you” re: an outfit. No random love emails, or texts, unless I'm traveling in which case it's a quick “g'night, love you” if we've not been able to connect by phone.
But even then, this isn't about the acts, it's about what I believe is a lack of desire to even do those things. The wanting of being wanted, not the being gotten or getting. At home I feel invisible except to my children.
Dysphoria aside, while that must be so incredibly difficult for her, this isn’t ok. Your baby doesn’t understand why milk doesn’t happen like it should and it could possibly totally interrupt the breastfeeding routine you have. It’s also just.. not you or your baby’s responsibility to affirm your partner’s identity, especially in this way. Therapy for everyone! Yayyyy
No, people can not change. This is not worth your time.
You deserve better.
Please end this, tell her to piss off, and never contact you again.
Hope you dont loss any loved one due to drugs. But then we will see how much do you think they should be legal. BTW, even the so called recreational legal drugs, such as alcohol, kill and maim a lot of people lives… and they shoul be banned also.
I am one to believe on personal freedom firmly, but story has proven again and again that some freedoms are not meant to exist, as people will ALWAYS abuse them. Sad, but historically true.
OP, you sound like a well-emotionally regulated person who knows how to be a boyfriend. You need to date another well-emotionally regulated person who also knows how to be a girlfriend.
The relationship is a commitment, and your girlfriend isn't emotionally in shape for a mature and healthy relationship which isn't fair for you.
After 11 years and no ring,I would look somewhere else too