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ALL GOALS MET [Multi Goal]
Date: November 8, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
ALL GOALS MET [Multi Goal]
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I feel physically safe but I do feel quite broken down. I get onto him about taking his meds but then he gets mad at me telling me I’m basically saying he’s acting crazy and that he wouldn’t be saying things if he were on his “crazy meds”.
This whole week he has been drinking so much that he’s been throwing up all night. On Christmas eve eve i thought I was going to have to take him to the hospital. It has screwed up my sleep schedule because he’s up all night. I just redid the bathroom and he threw up all over every towel, my new bathmat, and then moved to the living room barfing on my couch and my rug. This was after profusely vomiting the night before as well. He has still drank every day since in spite of saying he is “never drinking again” during the process. He went to band practice earlier and I texted him “You’re not drinking tonight, right?” to which he replied “Noooo.” He got home 2 hours later and was like well, I had a few beers. How is a few beers not drinking? I cannot deal with this alcoholism bullshit. It’s making me miserable and his empty promises are a joke. And of course I’ve been getting super upset with him about it and he just gaslights me and is like “I just can’t do anything right. You hate everything I do. Can you just leave me alone?”
I’m like maybe I should leave you alone permanently? But we live! together. It’s not simple. If there were a way to make it better I’d love to know how because I want to try everything before completely giving up. I also on-line in the Bay Area which is notoriously difficult for housing and super expensive plus I’m too old for roommates and I have a dog. I feel stuck.
I'd like an update that you actually canceled your card.
You deserve better.
Updateme! 7 days
Get yourself tested anyway. Are you sure he that he did not rape you and/or your friend? This sounds so suspicious, in your place I would get to a doctor and explained what happened.
I would throw water on him. ? That's what my parents did if we wouldn't wake up. Solved that issue fast. Since he wants you to play Mommy, maybe try it out.
Honestly, I'd be wary. Especially if you're sure there was tension while you were still a teenager. That doesn't come across like a healthy, equal dynamic relationship.
He’s honestly happy as a clam. I admire how he can feel comfortable anywhere he goes, no matter the condition. He’s very adaptable. He can afford better, he’d just prefer to save major money on rent, again I totally agree with that decision 🙂
I highly doubt I will be returning here. Having to turn the shower on with a wrench and random men banging on the front door looking for his roommate and his roommate asked my bf to lie and tell anybody looking for him that he doesn’t live there anymore.
I don’t fear for my bfs safety. He can handle himself. I also feel safe with him and I know he’d protect me at all costs. But the physical condition of the apartment, the potential of having to be defended and the location (known rougher area) really throws me off.