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This may be an unpopular opinion but I think you both could have obviously handled yourselves differently. As a woman we don’t need to explain ourselves to any man especially in an uncomfortable situation. If it was a crowded or loud bar, you could have simply pretended not to hear them and return to your fiancé. And we all know how he could have reacted a bit better. I think it’s great that you guys spoke about the situation after the fact though. Very scary situation.
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Prior to this have you truly felt like he is a great, supportive, loving partner that you’ve admired? If the answer is yes I think it all hinges on what happens next. How does he take accountability and how does he show his intention to rebuild trust, not just with words but also actions? I saw your comments about him selling his ps4 and rifles. This at least shows some effort to address the material violation of your trust. It is a bare minimum though and by no means absolves him. The fact that he admitted in his text that it was really stupid of him (‘I could blow my brains out’) also tells me that he’s at least in the right ballpark of emotion about it. Ie, he doesn’t frame it to his friend in a good way. How did the rest of the conversation between them go?
He needs to take total accountability and show initiative in putting a heck of energy and time into you. He is fucking on trial right now and should know he has no right to rush you in forgiving him so that things can ‘go back to normal’ for his sake. He needs to show you that he understands exactly how upset you are and why. Shame is appropriate. He seriously violated his family by pissing away $800, let alone the additional trust and hurt caused to you. If there’s some aspect of how upset you are that he hasn’t yet calculated he needs to listen. If you want some therapy, he needs to be enthusiastic and engaged. I hope that’s something you can afford (kind of ironic given his recent financial brilliance) because it could be helpful to have a third party insight.
If you feel like he is capable of this kind of emotional initiative and effort, then I think you have a solid chance of working through it. It just sucks because you’re in such an understandably vulnerable place right now post partum and you should be feeling valued and cherished for adding a whole ass new person into your family, not fuming and insecure because he was too off his rocker to say no to some strippers…
Trueeee.
Annnd thats why you don't date teenagers
Get rid of her, it’s not gonna get better. I had an ex like this and this along with many other things which I’m sure is probably the case for you to, caused me to dump her
Idk about bri'ish law. But blackening out in an use of excessive force case it's normally used in favor of the person accused.
Tell your dad to get a PI, and your dad to ask why your mum delete messages.
He's lying. Tell her
That's a huge obstacle.
instead of calling you, her boyfriend, to pick her up, she chose to go home with a random stranger then lied about it. re-read that a few times and then decide if you want to get back together with a liar.
Your “boundaries” are controlling. You can say you are uncomfortable with it, then let her make her choice.
I know that whenever I pour out my innermost thoughts and feelings onto the page meant ONLY for me, I am really hoping my loved ones read it behind my back and judge me for it. /s
If you can’t handle the sort of guy you just saw in that notebook, break up. But if you can, come clean to him.
This. Money isn’t worth the emotional abuse and manipulations. There are other ways.