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My wife and I got another puppy to help with her PND. That increased the souls in our house to 2cats, 2 adults, 2 dogs & 1 kid. And like you I do most of work around the house etc.
Aside from doggy day care or sitter, we paid a dog trainer to come into our home and show us what to do. The advantage with that was he showed both of us, which helped heaps as we were more of a team.
As the trainer said, most of his work is training humans?
I also agree, become independent and secure financially, the last thing you want is to feel trapped and isolated. Good luck with things?
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Ok thats different. Unfortunately your love was misplaced. Some people dont appreciate those that do the most for them.
I think that is a little bit suspicious but I would also dig a little into it before anything. I know my bf and I don’t post each other much at all?♀️ both of our social medias are more professional and I don’t like my coworkers up in my business sometimes so I don’t put a lot about my close relationships on there, including friendships. Have you noticed any changes in her behavior otherwise?
I am… I'm on this sub because I want to make sure that the scenarios I read of other people cheating never happens to me. If I can see it coming, I can stop it.
Yeah… this doesn't sound good.
They have two kids unfortunatly…
Not attending isn’t taking it out in anyone! Beside you might look like hell by dinner time(lack of sleep)!
Give her the number to the local DV shelter, then wash your hands of her.
The most dangerous time in a woman's life will be when she leaves an abuser, and being involved in helping an abuse victim leave an abuser puts the helper at risk. Are you willing to risk your mental health, and possibly your very life and the lives of everyone you live! with to help someone whose response to “yo, he's an abusive psycho” was to lash out at you? You tried to tell her not to get in that bed, but she told you to fuck off, made it, and stayed in it for six years. Someone else can help her get out of bed, preferably a group of people who dedicate time to doing so in the safest possible manner.
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If this is important to you then she's not the one. Maybe you're incompatible. That's neither your fault nor hers. Family may not have the same importance to her as it does you.
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ya she sounds weird lol
Thanks, this gives some perspective.
Has he been tested? His test will give you the answers.
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This sounds not manageable. Love yourself first and create a happy life for yourself
Real life is not a romcom or a disney movie. If he is a higher value man he also can pick a girl from many. Why would he not pick one that checks his important boxes? Why did you not fight for him? Did you put a lot of effort convincing him to give you a shot?
Maybe he has a backup plan but maybe the attriubutes for the woman he wants are not negotiable for him.
BF needs to drop the rope! If he doesn't see his mom is a problem, then you need to decide if he is worth the stress.
My little sister is like this. She had an awful boyfriend that just fucked her up mentally and trust wise. Now, with her fiance. He doesnt care if she hangs out with guys (although, she never does 1 on 1) but she does care if he hangs out with women 1 on 1. Now, she did make him not hang out with a girl he has known since kindergarten which… I thought was pretty messed up. If anything, she should have gotten to know her and all hung out together BUT thats just my opinion.
And honestly, its their relationship. Theyre adults. Theyre happy. If they decided that they didnt want to do that anymore. They would change the rules or bounce or whatever. Its none of my business and I feel the same way with your relationship. You guys can do and set whatever boundaries you want. Not everyone is the same.
The right thing you did is leaving her but unfortunately blocking anyone in any social media is kind of childish unless they won’t let you alone.
If this wasn’t a fever dream, I feel sorry for the girl at the moment but hopeful for her future.
She didnt married him for money though… Because he doesnt have any money. Only thing he does have is a cheap car.
And if he dies and I will leave her… She will have no one left.
Yeah, no. I “let that man watch porn” and it escalated into a daily addiction, which spiralled into horrible acting out and cheating. If he has an addictive personality, if he's weak, it will snowball.
Literally just say stop trying to wake me up to have sex with me when you come to bed.
Typically, narcissists are not self reflective enough to care to write a post like this. You’re probably not a narcissist from what you describe in your post (in my opinion anyhow). Narcissists don’t tend to get help or ask for help with themselves because they believe nothing is wrong with them. Your post is you describing yourself working on problems and attempting to be self reflective.
Interrupting is not a great behaviour and definitely should be worked on. Admitting fault also can be difficult and is a skill that can be improved over time.
What is of more concern to me is your husband’s willingness to callously label you a narcissist. I would tell him to please stop labeling you that it is hurtful (set a boundary) and see how he reacts.
You sound like you have a bit of social anxiety though, maybe get some help with that and take some time to find a therapist that’s a good fit (if you can afford to).
She's doing this to manipulate you and guilt trip you for the break up. I watched something similar go down with some nieghbors of mine. The kids weren't his, but he'd been around for a long time and whenever she didn't have someone else to occupy her time she'd hit him up with the “My kids miss you” to reel him back in till she found someone else to entertain her. It's gross.
Do some people, who are cool to date outside their religion, include Mormons? Kinda seems counter to their whole thing
As long as it wasn't beastiality nor necrophilia, you can probably fix this.
Don't have kids with him. You'll regret it forever. Find a husband that loves you.
You should be the one considering break up,. because he sounds is a terrible boyfriend
how would you define growth? Do you think they need other relationships to grow? Or just life experience?
Medication can numb feelings, so it could be that those things annoy you a lot, but your medication numbed that. It could be a rebound from going off the medication, as sometimes emotions get way more intense but then level out. If could be a health issue that the medication was keeping you from noticing (anemia, poor thyroid function, low vitamin d among other issues can cause irritability). But I’d start first with figuring out what about it annoys you. Even if it’s from something else, there is stiff truth to those feelings. They’re maybe not as intense as you’re use to but there’s something there that might be useful to figure out just the same.
Why pays escorts live!? Dude you need some serious help
She didn’t “accidentally” get drunk and bang her coworker the DAY AFTER you left.
I’m a mother of 3. I asked their father for a DNA test on all of them. I know I didn’t cheat on him, but I wanna see his stupid face when he realizes he’s an idiot.
I really don’t know why he’s so upset about it, I thought it was just a joke, and a joke he started! No one took it negatively except him.
He’s like super mad that I actually asked her, and I can’t figure out why. He just said it was 10/10 weird of me, maybe it gave him the ick? ?
I don’t know what Fetlife is but if she’s updating dating accounts while you’re together.. She’s looking.
no- he was diagnosed with borderline before moving out of his parents home. i didn’t include those details, but he moved out right after turning 18 due to an abusive situation, but therapy and psychiatry was paid for by his state at the time. borderline is partly diagnosed by uncontrollable/unregulated emotions as well.
He gave her the notebook to use a piece of paper, not to read it. That does give her permission to read what is in the notebook.
He must be in 29 palms, is he a 28xx mos? He'll probably be there for like a year and a half. He might be able to go on leave at some point but not for a while, at least until he gets done with his first school. He can't get a car and getting off base there is naked. I'd suggest you guys Webcam or something but he is probably 4-5 marines per room.
like who TF does that?
There's an old saying: tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are.
Ask what specifically he gets out of this relationship that he can't get from another guy. What topics they talk about or laugh about would be a good start.
Not necessarily. Some people just bite as a way of showing affection. It's not necessarily a fetish. The problem is that he's not respecting no.
That is what I so scared of. But, how do you leave when you do love someone so much.. how do you go everyday and seeing someone to nothing. I can go back to my parents.. but I know if I do then it’s over. My name is on the house and the loan.. how do I change that? The house money comes out of my checking account and then he just pays me monthly of what he owes. If I leave then how do I get my name off ☹️ and my name is on all the utilities because I manage the bills. How do I get an apartment if I own a house ? I don’t wanna leave but I know I need to ? I’m just not emotionally really ? I’m scared of the heart break.
Hey, while the person you're replying to isn't wrong in their use of statistics, that doesn't mean you should stay together.
You two have incompatible libidos. Daily preference and “when the stars align” is not a bridgeable gap.
You're already unfulfilled now, and if you ever want kids I can tell you finding the time and energy (which she already struggles with) gets much, much harder during pregnancy and with kids.
You are absolutely looking down a road that ends with a dead bedroom.
Neither of you is wrong for being how you are, and neither of you should need to change so you can be happy. But the fact is that you are incompatible.
You’ve stated multiple times he is in love with his wife, and had absolutely zero emotional connection with you. So get yourself into therapy, go low contact and take time to heal and move on and pursue a relationship with someone else.
No proper one. Casual just sex, definitely. More than just him. But actual emotional one, no. Because there hasn't been a guy I've been interested in.
Excellent response! OP is spending a lot of energy on her anger and frustration about things beyond her control. She can not control her friend, or make her see anything. What she CAN do is take control of herself and her own emotions, and see who her friend turned into as an adult, and if she can continue to stand behind and support a friend like this.
this is happening in my relationship. but It is me who is having this issue! i have no idea either.
Mate, you have no idea what you're talking about. Your opinion doesn't qualify if it's wrong.
You're literally not keeping pace with what you're saying – if my buddy in a bar gets slapped, and then somebody assists them to their feet to another and renders aid to them, then the threat is gone.
Anything after the fact is retaliation, especially if you cause an injury. Is a slap porportiabte to an arm break? Lmfao, there's you answer. You can claim it but you're gonna lose.
I didn’t say I think it was disproportionate. I said “maybe” and “it might have been”.
Do you hear yourself? Imagine being on trial and watching your lawyer defend you like this ??
Was the face because of your boobs, or was it because you started talking about the effects of aging body parts immediately after sex? Not a common after-sex topic for most, I have to say.
Just a heads up. When the IUD comes out. You might as well stay celibate for 4-8 weeks why your wifes body can get used to the pill or patch.
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Why does HE need to be “honorable,” but SHE does not?
She clearly stated that she is NOT sexually attracted to him, but she intends to marry him anyway. She also stated that she has NO intention of telling him that she doesn't find him sexually attractive before the marriage because that would be “cruel”.
Query: Do you think it's honorable of OP to refuse to tell him something this significant so that he can make an informed decision about whether to go forward with marriage to a woman who clearly states that she does not find him sexually attractive?
How is someone asking you to get naked manipulating you?
All of a sudden she forgot she had a husband? God, people are so dense.
He is not ready or feel inadequate with women his age.
So he thinks that by dating younger women can make them look up to him so to speak and he can control them I guess?.
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I hope you and his ex best friend get jumped fuckin bitch, i would spit on you but i don't wanna waste my energy on a creep
You're misreading this. This isn't some “trap”. Your gf was making a joke. Or at least trying to make one. Then she's pushing to get some sort of conversation or interesting remark out of you. I'm guessing your tone implied you had something to say. Instead she gets you taking her obvious joke seriously and call her rude over something meaningless.
You avoid this by saying “There's nothing to say”, and immediately changing the subject. Or even better, making a joke yourself: “You know I can't look at that popcorn ceiling without without wanting to scratch it all off” or “The ghost in your ceiling makes spooky faces at me when you're gone and I don't want to encourage it”. Or whatever. You definitely don't take her joke seriously as if she's some crazy gf and then call her rude bc she got up for a minute during your video call. Your girlfriend would not be upset if you had said either of the options I gave.
She might have created that conversation to see how you'd respond, but if she was looking for drama she would have escalated it you, not shut down. She thinks you're clueless and she feels like she doesn't know how to respond to what you said. When you called her rude for that, she feels you like you're controlling and are going to get insecure if you don't get every second of her attention. She shuts down because she feels like you won't get it, and she doesn't have the communication skills to address it.
I totally agree with you. I don’t even care about the slippers, it was more I was worried he was lying for no reason. I really try not to bitch at him or anything, so I was just a little concerned because I couldn’t think of a reason to not tell the truth but this totally makes sense. He has slides but he always loses them ? I guess it’s time to go on Amazon again lol
Because I don’t want to share my wedding year with my brother. & I doubt she would want to share her wedding year with me either
I never understand why people download porn when there are so many sites that are free on the internet.
Why take the risk of downloading something that could be illegal, when sites like Pornhub, etc. must ensure that these women are of legal age.
What your boyfriend did was wrong and needs help.
This isn’t going to be popular, but I think you should first realize that the only reason he knew was because you told him when you weren’t supposed to tell him. He did the same thing you did, so being angry with him and not taking responsibility yourself isn’t fair.
This has happened to me before too, and my initial reaction was the same but I realized it was my fault. I learned to not tell secrets or to ask for permission to tell my significant other, and I think that bothered them when I wouldn’t talk about certain things, but it also taught them the same lesson.
This isn’t going to be popular, but I think you should first realize that the only reason he knew was because you told him when you weren’t supposed to tell him. He did the same thing you did, so being angry with him and not taking responsibility yourself isn’t fair.
This has happened to me before too, and my initial reaction was the same but I realized it was my fault. I learned to not tell secrets or to ask for permission to tell my significant other, and I think that bothered them when I wouldn’t talk about certain things, but it also taught them the same lesson.
You keep not answering the question. Does the potential roommate typically bring home groups of strange men? That’s a yes or no question.
What’s he doing during the day if you are the sole breadwinner? What’s causing coming home late at night?
I really struggle to understand your fiance's thought process. How is it fair to you?
Her asking repeatedly and using manipulative statements is shitty. You're correct. If SHE doesn't want any more children SHE should do something permanent to fix the issue.
Hi, thanks for responding! I think we’re trying to find common ground and trying to find an acceptable compromise. But the issue is that in the interim, while he’s adjusting to this, I’m feeling really anxious and i kind of feel neglected. I recognise that i need to give him time, but i don’t know how to deal in the meantime.
We’ve been together physically for short periods. And we’re supposed to be meeting in a couple of weeks for a month.
He was with her for 10 years. That would be a good time to break up. He put his semen in her. Suggesting the morning after pill and breaking up would be the right thing to do. Breakup before the invitations went out would not be great, but understandable.
Breaking up with your pregnant fiancé a week before the wedding is unacceptable. Is he not worried about the baby’s health? Is he not worried about her? The stress of this is unbearable. No way a good man would ever do this.
He is a coward. He is letting his daddy give in an excuse to behave horrendously. What a low life.
Im just sayin not to wait, regardless of whos decision it was
You tried to off yourself because your ex didn't want to have sex with you, and you can't see why she doesn't want to add you to her health insurance?
Bear in mind that whatever he tells you, might not be the truth.
Personally, I would be tempted to skip it.
Exactly, reading this made me ill.
Yes, they do have a close friendship it sounds like. It isn’t a bad thing, but not everyone is ok being in a relationship where the coparent is THIS close to their significant other. That’s ok too. I won’t say I agree with all of GF’s actions, so I get where you’re coming from. But it’s also easy to pass judgment when we aren’t involved in a situation. I can see how having your home on display to someone via face time could feel invasive. I can also empathize with not necessarily wanting to see a “family photo” of the three of them on your own fridge. That didn’t make taking it down right or ok either. The key is to have conversations about these things in an open and honest way. It’s a challenge to navigate, that’s for sure.
FWIW, OPs girlfriend isn’t wrong or bad for not being comfortable with the other parents involvement in her day to day life. This doesn’t sound like the right relationship for her. But I think OP would be incredibly naïve to think this isn’t going to be a recurring issue. I have zero interest in being buddies with my coparent. Same goes for my husband. If he wanted to be close buddies with his coparent that wouldn’t have been the relationship for me. People don’t have to be best friends to be great parents/coparents. Anyone pushing that narrative needs to understand how incredibly nuanced and challenging blending families can be.
Then tell him what you wrote here. If he’s changed as you said he did then he would only be grateful that he was invited and that your step dad was more of a dad to you than he ever was. That’s the price of his actions. Maybe he already accepted that.
Sounds like the dog is a nightmare but if I was the BF I would rehome you.
Why do you keep asking if they’ll break up? I said they should. I don’t know them. How could I possibly predict what will happen?
Kids or no kids is NOT something silly. It's a major incompatibility. You need to accept that.
Don't have unwanted kids. BF said this is a dealbreaker. Do the honorable thing and set him free.
This is a you problem, not hers. You're insecure about how much she has done. Be happy for her and work on yourself too