6 months? You told him and he won't listen? You need to post on Reddit for advice so early on in the relationship? 21? Yeah, start 2023 single, you will feel even more comfortable!
a crush is not a strong emotional bond or even a weak emotional bond. she has no control over them, however she does have control over her reaction and her actions, which all show she wanted you and your relationship. but ok, throw it away
I was going to say the same thing. Kids are an absolute no no at this point. Between the depression and pain adding a child will make this nightmare so much worse. She can't cook and he's cooking after 12 hours. She in no way can care for a child.
Use laundry sanitizer and see if that helps. Find someone who has one, or see if you can rent an ozone machine. It will get rid of any smells in your car. There's a detailer I watch on YouTube and he has one and has used it many times.
What we know so far: 1. She's a very good liar 2. She's not afraid of concocting a false rape allegation and maintaining it for years on end 3. Happy to let you build the rest of your life on false premises 4. She did not come clean until you started asking questions again, out of the blue.
This is very well expressed. I’ve always been “alternative” and whatever stage of my life I’m in hasn’t changed that. Obviously that sounds completely insufferable, but I don’t know how to express that concept without sounding like a pretentious asshole. Sincere apologies.
I understand and that's why you definitely need to communicate your wants and needs. You may have told her that 3 years ago but things change when you have a kid. My comment was mainly based on you saying “sex is one of the main reasons I got with her originally” – that doesn't come across too hot because it makes it sound like that was the main thing drawing you in so the second that's not there you lost your spark – that's the long term issue I'm seeing here and why I said sex is not a stable trait to base your relationship on.
6 months? You told him and he won't listen? You need to post on Reddit for advice so early on in the relationship? 21? Yeah, start 2023 single, you will feel even more comfortable!
Please don’t refer to women as nice things. Objectifying people is shitty
a crush is not a strong emotional bond or even a weak emotional bond. she has no control over them, however she does have control over her reaction and her actions, which all show she wanted you and your relationship. but ok, throw it away
Do you think she was trying to potentially cheat on me with a guy in that area? I don’t see why else you would post that while in a relationship?
Maybe she was just thinking “I'm feelin good and lookin good and at the beach!”
I was going to say the same thing. Kids are an absolute no no at this point. Between the depression and pain adding a child will make this nightmare so much worse. She can't cook and he's cooking after 12 hours. She in no way can care for a child.
Use laundry sanitizer and see if that helps. Find someone who has one, or see if you can rent an ozone machine. It will get rid of any smells in your car. There's a detailer I watch on YouTube and he has one and has used it many times.
What we know so far: 1. She's a very good liar 2. She's not afraid of concocting a false rape allegation and maintaining it for years on end 3. Happy to let you build the rest of your life on false premises 4. She did not come clean until you started asking questions again, out of the blue.
You need to do some serious soul searching OP.
Why are you still with this man?
What do you want the end result to look and feel like?
Once you know that, work backwards from there?
RUUUNNN forest RUUUNNN..!!
This is very well expressed. I’ve always been “alternative” and whatever stage of my life I’m in hasn’t changed that. Obviously that sounds completely insufferable, but I don’t know how to express that concept without sounding like a pretentious asshole. Sincere apologies.
Where is his lack of commitment? You've been dating for 7 years, and you're saving for a house. If that isn't commitment, I don't know what is.
Lots of marriages don't last 7 years.
So many things wrong with this. These racist jokes have truth in them. Please stop dating this guy.
Who is the he you are talking about?
I understand and that's why you definitely need to communicate your wants and needs. You may have told her that 3 years ago but things change when you have a kid. My comment was mainly based on you saying “sex is one of the main reasons I got with her originally” – that doesn't come across too hot because it makes it sound like that was the main thing drawing you in so the second that's not there you lost your spark – that's the long term issue I'm seeing here and why I said sex is not a stable trait to base your relationship on.
Why are you trying to normalize cheating? ?
You didn't do wrong unless there's bad/toxic things about you you're not talking about.
Jealousy? Anger? Controlling?
If you were a reasonable person? This is you dodging a bullet.
All you can do is be reasonable, honest, open and… well… an adult.
If he acts like a child? That's his loss not yours.
Why were you okay with sleeping in the bed?
This sounds like an emotional affair.
I thought the same about the future scenario also. Yeah, I’m annoyed at myself for raising my voice. It came shortly after a minor a