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Room for on-line sex video chat Julia-Ivy
Model from: fr
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Birth Date: 1992-12-07
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Date: October 6, 2022
Autism isn't relevant here, it was a shit gift where the giver thought they were way too smart and the recipient had clearly expressed reasonable guidance on what they would love to receive.
He tried
If you diss your dick, don’t expect someone to want to suck it.
Emotional vulnerability and intimacy are essential. However, insecurity is a turn off. Healthy relationships find a way to balance those things.
I don’t think it’s wrong to tell him and it isn’t wrong to not be attracted to it, but hair changes. You can voice your preferences, but as his partner it’s important you respect his autonomy. If this is a dealbreaker for you it’s a dealbreaker.
But if you do something like tell him “I won’t have sex with you until you get rid of it” that’s manipulative. If you’re not sexually attracted to him right now, a nicer way to say things may be “I’m glad you’re trying out different things with your hair. I’ll be honest, I don’t find the stache sexually attractive and for whatever reason it creeps me out, so I’ll need time to adjust to this look.” I think saying that continuously is better as it isn’t manipulative and respects both of you
Look the other way.
“I just laid in the same position until he was done”
That is pretending to be asleep.
And I do note that you are blaming him for her intrusion on a private medical appointment. That is not where the blame lies.
It has crossed my mind that the comments here would be very different if the genders were reversed
As a general rule I think all relationships should have open phone/open social media policies.
Personally I make that Crystal clear right up front and if the woman in question has a problem with it, I wish her a nice life and mosey on down the road.
I realize few people handle it that openly though. Sometimes(often, in fact) i can recognize the necessity of looking through a person's phone or social media without their knowledge.
Privacy is something we sacrifice for intimacy, connection, commitment and trust.
So, all that being said…if you're sure you've done nothing wrong then this is probably a blessing in disguise. You likely dodged a bullet. Go collect your belongings(bring a friend) say your goodbyes, and move on.
If for no other reason than curiosity, it might be a good idea to ask him what it was that triggered this.
Don't try to defend it. Don't try to explain it. Just listen, nod, wish him a nice life and leave.
On your way home you can reflect on what he said and decide if whatever made him do this was valid or not.
If so, maybe it's something you can learn from and become a better person in your next relationship.
If not, you can breathe a sigh of relief secure in the knowledge you just dodged a paranoid nutcase-shaped bullet.
Well, you reap waht yous sow.