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sucking a toy [Multi Goal]
Date: October 11, 2022
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sucking a toy [Multi Goal]
Yes it is completely different , watching a movie ( porn movie) is very very different than almost doing a movie/ show , you will me very hot , you will be touched , you will be sexualised You are on your right to start stripping , but stopping and watching porn is completely different . He is in his right not to be okay with it . I wouldn’t be okay with my husband stripping I am pretty sure that my husband wouldn’t be okay with me stripping
Ultimately, it's up to you. I don't think it would be crazy to do either one.
Are you able to forgive her and trust her? Is your relationship in a good place now, like do you communicate what you actually feel with each other?
I have been diagnosed for lack of a better word of being hyper aware of my surroundings due to PTSD. It sounds like you may have some of the same issues. I had a stalker who unfortunately is also my ex husband and children's father. He put us through so much and it took years to feel completely safe.
My best advice is make your home your sanctuary and don't feel bad if you check locks or put up a video doorbell so you can see who's outside. (I wish those had existed back then) It's OK to pay attention when you are in a place you may see him. That's your mind trying to protect you. Also make sure your bf knows what he looks like so he can watch your back and always let him know when you are feeling scared and anxious because he will know what is going on and be able to give you rhe strength you need at the moment to feel better. I hope you can find a way to have some more peace.
I agree, it's awful. And need to talk.
Good rule about not putting dished in the sink with water.
I totally agree with everything said here!
Its very hot to compromise with someone that is straight-up wrong. Proper aftercare is a part of sex. Its just as important as foreplay, if not moreso because it establishes emotional bond. You can't expect a fuck-buddy to cuddle, but you should be able to expect it of your partner. If he's playing on his phone then he may as well not even be there at all. Thats not a compromise – thats him having his way.
So what if a lot of men just walk off afterward? Thats setting the bar so low that its practically in the dirt. Expect better ladies.
“He has a right to not cuddle you” – thats true. And OP has the right to expect sensuality in a relationship.
Wife on a girlfriend salary?? She’s not a wife if all she’s doing is folding your laundry ?, she’s not giving you physical affection or intimacy, cooking or cleaning you’re paying for almost everything… I am amazed at the audacity honestly! I would get out dude, save yourself years and tears. Btw I’m a woman and im not dating a woman has to cook and clean in a relationship by any means, I’m just saying that wife on a girlfriend salary is mot what is happening at all.
How many of those guys had a bigger dick than you? Statistically speaking
Just break up with someone rather than go through all that. It’s not normal behaviour and honestly a bit weird that you think that’s a reasonable solution to suggest to someone.
He's crazy. Bail
You owe it to everybody involved to get the dna testing done, and if she is not your biological child, find the other family.
Jesus I hope this is fake. Hopefully she bails and finds a partner who actually listens to what she says.
The idea of having to tiptoe around this dude and be conscious of every decision to ensure his male ego isn’t hurt sounds exhausting
I was in a situation where I felt like I was forcing myself to acknowledge all the great things about my partner and pushing all the doubt and indecision to the back of my mind. Believe me, it doesn’t end well. Resentment will build and it is not sustainable. Don’t waste each others time if you feel like his flaws are dealbreakers, or are constantly wishing he could be different.
Also, being physically compatible is important, and it sounds like you two aren’t.
thats what i mean too!! there are many technical and financial reasons to get married, especially like supporting each other.
he is planning to take a gap year to work while i’m in school, and then im planning to work part time to help pay for stuff when he’s in medical school (im very lucky that my parents want to help me out with school, and more than willing to pick up some slack on rent while we’re both in grad school) being married seems like the Mature Decision but everyone is saying im being naive
Being dramatic and saying extreme things instead of being realistic and listening to advice about your situation is what teenagers do. You’re a middle aged woman. Act like an adult. You’re allowed to cry and struggle and feel all your feelings, but who are you doing this self pity act for?
Who doesn’t brush in the morning!?
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It's just OP's gut feeling that the co-worker is into her bf. There's no concrete evidence that they have mentioned.
I have personally noticed that the younger generation is extremely generous with liking their friends' stuff on social media and reacting with heart emojis. OP might be misinterpreting things, at least from what I have gathered from her post.
Why repost this?
It would be quite foolish/stupid to do that.
Yeah ok! I have no tact lol. No matter what way you wanna look at it, my points were 110% valid and made perfectly logical sense. Anyways, have a lovely day!
That he's a wanker.
I mean, sometimes the person themself doesn’t know they have trauma. Therapy has done a lot for me, and I always look forward to my appointments. It helped me realize the reason I wake up in “fight” mode was because my mom and I fought every morning horribly and sometimes physically before I went to school. My body was just conditioned my entire life to be a mean bitch when I was woken up by someone else. Now when I do wake up in that enraged state (which isn’t often anymore) I’m able to kind of be like “wait a second nobody is going to frisbee a text book at ur face this morning” and I calm down much quicker before I even have a chance to be a btch
Yes ? I just want to trust my partner and be happy and so far I’ve been burned
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Stop talking to him? Like it’s not that very hot but considering you couldn’t close your legs to a married man I understand this might be tough.
My first thought is that he is involved in drug smuggling, and wants to keep you out of it.
If you can’t trust her your relationship with her is dead. Best for you to break up and move on. The good thing is that if you work on yourself, your best years for a relationship are yet to come, there will be a solid woman coming along, don’t waste precious time with this one.
I am pretty sure you aren’t the for SO Mary tries to seduce from your wife- it’s probably an ongoing theme which is of course contributing to your wife’s hangups. She is a neuroscientist. So if ever you are around Mary again and she makes comments or innuendos the only way to stop that is with an insult. A nice refusal won’t work. Play into the ongoing dynamic and use it you your advantage. “Mary, I am sorry, but I am only attracted to really smart and brilliant women. That’s why your sister turns me on. I am afraid we just wouldn’t work.”
No
You need some help dealing with your issues. A boyfriend loving you can not substitute for a therapist who can help you learn to love yourself, and to take care of yourself. Please do get help. You sound like a lovely and beautiful woman. And yoga and Pilates are great: don't let him control or manipulate you. You do what you feel comfortable with. Hugs and best wishes.
The first male OB I saw I definitely cried. He apologized. It wasn’t his fault. It was someone else’s but even though I knew he was just checking on the pregnancy as expected it was tough. My first GYN visits, I asked for the nurse’s hands even though they were women, too. They did it about half the time.
Or she watches too much pornhub and sexualizes a lot of things inappropriately. I have never heard of an SA person behaving so venomously over elderly people or other handicapped people having their soiled diapers changed. Notice too the gf went straight to diaper fetish porn sites too, rather than showing examples or news articles of handicapped people being sexually abused.
He is a right dickhead and it is sexual assault. Send him to the bin, right where he belongs.
Says it’s been this way with all his exes. And that I turn turn him on easily. But to get there. To cum, he usually imagines another person with this kink. Says it’s always been this way….
I was surprised this person I interact with every week and who has not shown any interest in me suddenly made a comment heavily implying they want to kiss me, therefore I am trolling. Got it.
Then move on and date someone else.
get rid of this guy
he holds you in contempt
these aren't jokes, it's bullying
Whereas I've been on camping trips where there are girls and boys tents. If not all the people there are couples it's super awkward for a single person to share with a couple, it sounds like OP and her boyfriend were literally the only couple. Adults should be able to manage a few hours sleeping separately.
What else do I do bro? Do I just drop everything and leave?
You should be upset, but given your ages I think context might be worth determining “how upset”.
Is he browsing women for excitement? Time to get a new boyfriend.
Is continuing a practice of basically playing “hot or not” with his juvenile friends from when he was single? That is a teachable moment I’d you feel like going to the effort and telling that you are cool with it, it’s misogynistic, and that you can always go with option one if he doesn’t straighten up.
You should be upset, but given your ages I think context might be worth determining “how upset”.
Is he browsing women for excitement? Time to get a new boyfriend.
Is continuing a practice of basically playing “hot or not” with his juvenile friends from when he was single? That is a teachable moment I’d you feel like going to the effort and telling that you are cool with it, it’s misogynistic, and that you can always go with option one if he doesn’t straighten up.
Why not?