Thanks for sharing….sorry you've been through that pain ?
And yhh I agree, he definitely did show who he is. Sometimes I feel heartless though! But then I try to think about it from different angles like “what would have made it ok that he completely didn't respond”…..and I got nothing!
There’s nothing inherently negative about telling him that she wants the same type of trip he wants. The only thing making it seem “shitty” is the assumption that he will not respond favorably to this, based on her reports of how he has responded thus far. She said she would be fine with him going on a golf trip, she just doesn’t want him going to clubs and casinos and acting like he’s still single when he has, presumably, committed his life to being with her. If they can’t agree on something as basic as that, they shouldn’t be getting married.
fr, everyone applauding her and patting her on the back like she did something responsible
Thanks for sharing….sorry you've been through that pain ?
And yhh I agree, he definitely did show who he is. Sometimes I feel heartless though! But then I try to think about it from different angles like “what would have made it ok that he completely didn't respond”…..and I got nothing!
You sound fluent
There’s nothing inherently negative about telling him that she wants the same type of trip he wants. The only thing making it seem “shitty” is the assumption that he will not respond favorably to this, based on her reports of how he has responded thus far. She said she would be fine with him going on a golf trip, she just doesn’t want him going to clubs and casinos and acting like he’s still single when he has, presumably, committed his life to being with her. If they can’t agree on something as basic as that, they shouldn’t be getting married.
Oof ew.. no seriously my parents and i have a 20year age gap.. i could never date someone that's 49.
They probably went to school with my dad. Thats just gross.