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Date: November 21, 2022
Hi, Indian guy here.
I won't defend the things people are saying because it's true in a lot of cases. But please consider the following:
Some guys will do an arranged marriage, no matter what. Please be careful of men who want to date and sleep around with women they consider “girlfriend material”, and then get married to someone they consider “wife material”. Not saying everyone in this category is like this, but this is prevalent, and why a lot of women on this sub have a bitter taste regarding this topic, and rightfully so. Some guys will be iffy on the topic, and it all comes down to how much they are willing to listen to themselves, vs “society and all that drama”, and what their own priorities are. The issue I mentioned above can creep in here too. Some guys will be steadfast and refuse to budge, and will disown their parents if they have to (usually never that bad, but in some rare cases yes) Some guys will be steadfast, and find a way to make it work and create a balance, and not crack under the pressure of age or what people say. And in a lot of such cases, indian parents welcome non-indian SILs DILs with open arms.
A lot depends on how traditional they are and how much of a hold they have on him. Please be careful about his intentions even if you do have a frank conversation about this. If you are still not convinced, I think the top comment was the best. “You should walk away”
I did, almost 3 to 4 times now, She said she'll do better, but it's always the same in a way.
I think you're confusing someone wanting to own a piece of your assets, or to control you, with treating someone like you think they're a part of your future.
She brings nothing to the table financially, so she shouldn't own it- right.
She isn't my wife, and she can't forbid me from doing it- right.
I can make decisions which will affect whether or not we're in the same city, whether we move in together or not, and if so when, and whether or no my partner might need to give up school/work/family to continue to be with me without even considering her opinion on the situation, because if she doesn't pay for things I don't need to consider a part of my future at all – you're going to be single in a week or two.
When you have a long-term partner, decisions which will affect the future of the relationship should be discussed if you want that person to continue to be in a relationship with you. It's not that they can control you, or all property is theirs. It's that you're sending the message that you don't care if anything you choose to do ends the relationship because you don't expect them to be in your life long term. After two and a half years you all should be deciding what your relationship trajectory and goals should be if you stay together long term. If one of you relocates, or makes a large financial decision, or signs a multi-year lease, which prevents you from living together for the next few years, or ever, it's considered common decency to talk to your partner and let them know that you're making a large change which could end the relationship, and if you're looking for them to stay with you, then they SHOULD have the opportunity to share their opinion on what that looks like.
The thing about people who tend to be very dependent is, that can become more pronounced over time, to the point that it is debilitating for both people. I don't think you should allow yourself to become another person's sole source of support. Encourage her to get out and do things for herself, think for herself, make a few mistakes and learn from them, etc.
Your mental health matters. Would you consider moving somewhere attractive for a job, then bringing your GF to come live with you? She might be able to transfer schools, or do most of the remaining work remotely. This is much more common than even 5 years ago, thanks to the pandemic forcing remote learning to become widespread.
Came here to say this! One of my friends is an electrician and it's a running joke amongst our group (many of whom work in various trades) that he chose electrics because he doesn't want to get his hands dirty or do a proper day's work lol.
Lmao, welcome to the world of roommates. They fart. You learn to live with it.
You probably need to work on yourself and self esteem. I think it’s fair to tell him you have feelings and let him know that’s why you won’t be hanging out with him as much one on one for a while.