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Date: October 22, 2022
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if my husband cuddled anyone except me, I would divorced him Just saying
Nah, you are just ignoring what that person is saying and repeating yourself.
I think that's a good message. You sound like you are in total burnout mode and can't handle any more emotional issues than you have. It's ok to write that. She is probably snubbed that you can not be there for her when she needs you. Write her again with an apology and say that you you are so burnt out that you can not even express properly what you want to say, and ask her for some time to work on yourself. You need that right now.
And I would suggest that you seek therapy if you can. Someone to talk with, even if it is just a few sessions will help you. You need tp focus on your own mental health right now. You'll make it through this.
Set clear boundaries with your siblings. There are lots of people having problems right now. Don't be everyone's therapist.
My husband and I both wash ourselves before sex. Not with soap or female hygiene products, just a wash cloth with warm water. Perhaps if you both do it, it'll help her?
Also, the pubic hair problem – I don't like to shave, so I only do it when my husband says the hairs are itching his nose. Otherwise, he says my pubes are like feromone central and the scent arouses him even more. We usually make the shaving a sexual activity where he shaves me and then have fun afterwards. Don't know if your wife likes the idea if she's insecure about it, but perhaps it's worth a try? And if she finds it's actually fun, it'll help her ralise that you really do mean that you don't care.
You have a master/slave relationship. You are not equals. He controls everything and, as long as you don't push back, he is wonderful and giving.
You don't have a marriage at all. He ignores you as he would a servant. He will talk to you when he feels like it, not before. Is it really good 90% of the time or are you just knuckling under 90% of he time?
Your husband is abusive. You and he are teaching your son that that is okay. That abusing your spouse and children is fine. Your husband denies you all the rights and privileges of marriage such as an equal say, recognition and validation as an equal, but you are still there. Why? Marriage counseling doesn't fix abuse 'cause abusers don't want to give up their power. He isn't changing for the better. He is counting on your low self-esteem to keep you there.