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Date: October 28, 2022
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btw, if therapy isn't helping – seek out a different therapist perhaps. It took me 7 tries to find the right one.
Get an air horn and blow it every time she interrupts you.
My fiancé is the biggest pain in my ass, I love him more than anything but he can be a pain in my ass. That’s not name calling or being mean. Don’t joke with someone if you can’t take a joke back, that leads to walking on egg shells and a roommate relationship.
I could probably do it now, but im paying the entire rent, bills, etc.
Put bows on the light switches, fridge, stove- everything you pay for, let her know you get her “gifts” everyday.
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Congrats on not answering the question
Just ask. Besides, lemme tell ya right now that whole “not sure if I trust going over to your place” thing is absolute bullshit. If she likes you she'll say yes, but if she keeps making excuses to flake then she's probably just too shy, non-confrontational, or indecisive to properly reject you. Either way, ask her out, but make that it. You need time away from this girl & experience with other options. Don't be her texting buddy, don't be her “pal”. If she wants nothing from you romantically or won't see you face-to-face then move on with your life.
So… trust is the wrong word. I guessing she meant she can’t count on you to be her rock or similar sentiment.
I agree. But, it is trust that she can't count on him.
I don't think it's unfair, though. I know I'll get downvoted for this, but in a moment when his wife needed him the most he wasn't able to handle the situation and it let her down. She wasn't able to turn to him for comfort because he passed out and wasn't there for her.
She's valid in feeling this way, her feelings aren't wrong.
OP IS ALSO valid in feeling his way, and his feelings aren't wrong.
This looks like it might be a “relationship injury” – something my husband and I learned in our counseling.
OP, this is above Reddit's pay grade. The responses you're getting are shit, you're right, people are messy and also complicated.
BTW, I don't think she's wrong for bringing this up to you. You two are partners, she should be able to bring this up with you even if she hasn't processed it internally. When we're in committed relationships (such as a marriage) we all should feel okay to bring up issues and concerns with our spouses, even if she hasn't already “processed it internally.” (I couldn't roll my eyes hard enough at THAT one.) When we're in relationships, we do NOT online in a vacuum.
Look at this way: it may be 8 years later, but she was probably very scared to bring it up 8 years ago, especially considering what happened. But she's bringing it up NOW, which also means she DOES have some modicum of trust with you. That she's ready to bring this up with you now. I know you two have been in individual counseling, maybe she finally feels ok to work through these feelings with you as her husband (oh, hey! You can be there for her NOW!). It's ok for her to bring this up with you. To think she shouldn't or couldn't is wrong. What good is having a spouse when you can't work through things together?
OP, please seek out a marriage counselor. You're getting shit advice here.
“We do everything a couple does.” What more do you want? How would things change if you were “official?”
My wife and I love each other to not kiss and keep our distances while sick. I think it incredibly selfish to do otherwise. Am I supposed to inflict suffering on her because I’m too fucking self-centered that I need a cuddle while carrying the plague?
Something to keep in mind to add a little perspective she's feeling emotions and I'm sure that doesn't feel good for her but you didn't make her feel that way. That is simply the reality of the situation you are not responsible for how she feels
However she is directly responsible for how she is making you feel, she's choosing to take it out on you instead of reflecting on why she feels that way in the first place and dealing with it.
Simply put it's extraordinarily immature but she is young and we're all fucking stupid at that age, and it's when we do stupid shit like this that we learn we're doing something stupid, so give her the opportunity to understand your side of this and recognize that what she's doing is unfair and if she continues to be mad at you then you understand that she is immature and does not respect you.
you're welcome, and no, you're not overreacting. If anything, you're underreacting. He's manipulative (talking about how he's depressed without you and blah blah blah) and doesnt respect you or your boundaries. He's a jerk and you deserve so much better than this!
Thank you.
I'd never try to hurt her feelings. It's just I thought it was only a porn thing, like a force fetish. I didn't know it was a cultural thing to show enjoyment as pain?
It's only in bed as well. When I massage her I hear the normal moans of enjoyment I'm used to. When I've seen her in pain, it's literally the same as the sex noises and faces.
So it's almost like she's only switched up those two reactions for sexy time.
Run.
Run fast and far.