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Jordyn Harms, 20 y.o.
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Date: October 20, 2022
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You stopped it, so that's good, but how you still feel about it isn't good. If you continue to feel this way toward your friend, honestly, you probably shouldn't be in a relationship with your girlfriend. Having feelings for someone else while you're in a monogamous committed relationship is low-key emotional cheating. No one deserves to be in a relationship with someone that's harboring feelings for someone else. That's hurtful.
But for cheating, my rule is, if you wouldn't do it in front of your s/o, it's cheating. Also if you know it would hurt your s/o it's at the very least, close to a breach of fidelity. Me, personally, I'd feel insecure, upset, and hurt if my bf had feelings for someone else for obvious reasons, and I'd also be hurt if I found out that he was also being intimate with that person (holding hands) even more so if I found out from someone else instead of my own bf.
Despite what others are saying, I think you should tell your gf. What if your friend tells her instead, what if someone that saw you guys tells her instead? Then she's going to feel much worse than if you just told her. I also think you should be asking her what she defines as cheating, not strangers. It's really different for everyone. Some people don't consider stuff like flirting cheating because “it isn't physical”. I personally do consider flirting cheating, and to me, something doesn't have to be physical to be cheating. Some people don't even consider a kiss cheating. Either way, you need to be establishing this with her.
Honestly, I'd also recommend distancing yourself from your friend a little too. If you feel this strongly over something so small, who's to say that it won't turn into you two having something full on in the future? Or you with someone else?
I don't see how doing at least a part time job would hurt.
I would certainly ask him to chip in with the housework though. There's no reason he can't help with that.
Dude you were married 8 months ago, you are seriously coming off as a creepy guy.
Pig. 100%.
I'm sorry, I know that sucks to hear but you know the truth in your heart.
When I confronted him, he said he felt like I was controlling him and mothering him and this was a way for him to do what he wanted to.
So that was him being honest with you. What he wants to do is drink, party and close the bars down several times a week and the only reason he hasn't been doing that is because you won't 'let' him.
So that's the real him. He wants to party and drink and not have to be at home with his wife and kids. He has escalated his behavior exponentially by deliberately sending a dick pic to your sister. He is imploding before your very eyes and you should immediately start getting your ducks in a row and make a plan to leave him before his shit hits the fan.
Without assumptions, I'd say it's not petty at all. Even if the friend is expecting an invite, it wouldn't be petty. You do not owe her an invitation no matter what other nice things she may have done for you.
That being said, she never owed you an invitation to travel or to be involved more in her life. That sounds harsh, but I don't mean it that way. It's simply a matter of you both viewing things differently. You can't guess her reasoning and without asking her, you'll never know.
I tend to be more of a giver in my relationship and sometimes I am hurt when that is not returned. I've learned to let it go and not take it personally. You can only control yourself. And your expectations of others will seldom be met.
I say go on your vacation alone. And while you're there, just consider the importance of this unequal friendship. You can still go on as you have, you can pull back a little, or cut the friendship entirely. Whatever makes you feel happy, and appreciated, is the right choice.