I think the problem is your partner doesn't see you as ready to take the next step in life. If i had to guess she wants to get married, have kids, buy a house etc. While it sounds like you would rather just chill in your city and live a leisurely life. Neither is wrong but definitely not compatible. You guys are in your 30s and it probably seems like shes waiting for the next thing to happen
Yeah, I know. But I'm stupid and I'm trying to work through it because I really love this girl. I really do. But since I laid my boundaries out, now she knows that there won't be a “next time” for this. And if there is, there will be no future for us.
He literally said he would go for minors if he could, lmao.
I think the problem is your partner doesn't see you as ready to take the next step in life. If i had to guess she wants to get married, have kids, buy a house etc. While it sounds like you would rather just chill in your city and live a leisurely life. Neither is wrong but definitely not compatible. You guys are in your 30s and it probably seems like shes waiting for the next thing to happen
Yeah, I know. But I'm stupid and I'm trying to work through it because I really love this girl. I really do. But since I laid my boundaries out, now she knows that there won't be a “next time” for this. And if there is, there will be no future for us.