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Date: November 8, 2022
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Wow where do I begin? First of all, bringing a third person into the bedroom is not going to “save a marriage”. Bringing a third person in is something that only should be considered if in a healthy relationship where the two of you agree on this, not one trying to coerce or manipulate the other in participating. Second, is it a certain person (male or female) in which he is wanting to be involved in the threesome? You said that when y’all first got together, he had mentioned to you about having one at some point… And I totally get that you just kind of brushed it off – having a threesome seems to be the “typical“ male fantasy – especially since y’all had just started dating. But the fact that he seems to be rather obsessed about it, kinda worries me. Have y’all talked about y’alls past sexual encounters? More specifically, has he been involved in a threesome before? Has he mentioned/requested any other sexual fantasies that he would like for you to fulfill? I’m asking these questions rhetorically, maybe thinking back, you’ll be able to recognize a pattern? And BTW, it will not be your fault if the marriage “fails” by not agreeing to the threesome.
Horrible and insensitive the same way people like you ignore how i mentioned the loss of my own mother as well. Mother, the person who literally gave birth to me. While you all rooting for someone they knew for 2 years! You get over yourself miss/mr whoever you are.
Let's just say I wouldn't put much weight on his opinions about his financial resources…
Change therapists (this one sucks) if you really intend to make an effort to save your relationship. Personally, I think you'd be better off moving on.
She is not aware of his current relationship status and he doesn't want to tell her that he's found someone else because it will hurt her feelings and possibly make things difficult in the future.
He's not really your boyfriend op. :/ He's still with her emotionally and prioritises her over you.
maybe I'm projecting – but word for word, ive been the “official EX gf” in this story.
VIP: You're NOT secret to not hurt her feelings. It's so he could have his cake & eat it too. Your feelings and emotional safety are below hers, but both of you ladies emotional clarity & security is well below his needs.
The new gf was kept from me – to keep me, the ex he was still in love with and emotionally intertwined with – close & open & girlfriendingly available him. Even if we were on a “break”.
As brutal as it sounds – she was a placeholder he used as a bandaid to fill the me-shaped hole in his heart, whilst he processed the end of us. He kept the new gf a secret so “we” didnt really need to end as comprehensivly as he wasnt ready for.
Not telling the ex about you, is so he can still future-ghost himself and her. It sounds like your a bitplayer in their romantic breakdown – sorry. so sorry
I hope he treats you better than my ex (secretly) treated his “new-gf”.
I dont think she ever found out he'd been emotionally cheating or disrespecting of her for the entire time they were together. Even after he finally confessed to the existence of a “new gf”, and i realised he actually wasnt joking, – the underlying issue of him not wanting to let “us” go, or be respectful of his new gf if it cost me, was still there.
If i wasnt still reeling myself & fucked up by the deception – i might have reached out to her to let her know – but maybe i can do so for you.
He eventually dumped her with a “its not you its me” and took time out he actually needed to be single and heathily process the end of a big relationship.
A guy keeping you a secret for “the sake of an ex” is almost always needing to do exactly that. He's not over her.