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You’re boyfriend is a fucking idiot.
Alcohol doesn't make you do anything that is against your nature. It does lower your inhibitions which can lead to you doing things that you would refrain from while sober due to consequences. Being drunk can explain her poor choices, but does not absolve her of them.
She didn't have to tell you about it and if she hadn't, you probably would never have found out. This could just be her trying to get in front of it or it could be genuine remorse. It is a positive sign, but just one in a sea of red flags.
If you decide to stay and try to work things out, you need to resolve why she did it and how she refrains from doing it in the future.
Op I am not saying all this to make you stay with her. Even if she has been raped , you don’t have to stay with her. She needs therapy though after this.
So I am giving how things are. What she did is a mechanism. Surviving skills of human in such position ( again irrespective of gender) makes them take decisions which they wouldn’t in normal circumstances. See grown men like Terry crews who is so big and muscular couldn’t help when they were sober and sexually assaulted they froze. This is just an example. She didn’t have to follow someone to the room but she did cause like I said she still trusted him. People don’t think they will get raped and she might have thought her saying No to him would be enough. I also don’t know how drunk she was. To give more examples, there was a famous case where a woman was so drunk that she slept next to a trash can than in the very place the party was being held and then got raped by Brock Turner who was in the same party I think. Her kissing isn’t okay thing. I don’t think that’s justifiable. However, she was raped. She might herself go in denial about lot of things. Hopefully she gets therapy. You don’t have to stay with her because of this.
So whats the main for?
It feels like a lot for any guy to have to go through. I just don’t know why she wants me to do this stuff for my boyfriend. It’s just weird he was away for a day and a half and she wants me to get him balloons, candy, etc like damn it was just a day and a half he wasn’t fighting in a war
I've been living this for 7 years. I do not wish that hell on anyone. You don't have children with him, keep it that way. Its easy to say just leave (we all have our attachments) I see you are worried about the dog you share. Thinking about how much I loved my pup that passed I can understand how that is hot for you. You won't leave until you decide that for yourself no matter how much people tell you too. So I will have you ask yourself some questions, Why are you waiting for someone? How long have you waited and what has really changed? When you see happy couples do they seem to share a common goal? How set in your ways do you think you will be at 30? Spend a week or two without him, then ask yourself how do you feel away from him while you focus on your goals by yourself? How badly do you want your future? Write a 1 year plan (that involves no one else but yourself) work on these everyday. You will mess up, you will hit roadblocks, forgive yourself. Reflect on this moment. You cannot change anyone but yourself. Do not let other people stand in your way. They can either step up or step aside.
Tell him you absolutely need to swim for injury rehab, and he’s welcome to swim with you when it fits into his workout. You can get an orthopedist or physical therapist to prescribe this if you think he’ll accept that more than the articles you’ve sent him.
Miscarriages are horrific. Having a child die after being delivered is a nightmare. Having a husband who blames you for it is grounds for divorce. Think VERY VERY HOT about this. He doesn't respect you, the trauma or the lingering effects. He's just focused on poor him, boo-fucking-who.
I am replying to these as I see comments coming in, but I am not able to view them. Maybe the mods are removing them( sorry not very Reddit savvy). He has brought up therapy and tells me he is going to make an appointment but never does. When I try to prompt these deep talks, he just says he feels inadequate and that I am asking for things he can’t provide. I’m not asking for anything, I’m trying to have goals and ideas about our future. So he just shuts me down and makes me feel bad for depressing him about the subject.
Please please please do NOT have a baby with this man.
she responds, this is why I hate you
Why are you dating someone who hates you?
This neverending questioning thing is gonna lead to you resenting her. And there's no coming back from that.
What are you confused about, he’s MARRIED. Please don’t maintain any relationship with this person. He lied to you. Run as far away from him as you can.
If this was the first conversation about marriage, that's an unusually assertive way to bring it up. Based on your ages and the length of your relationship, I'd be surprised if it's never come up before. This question may have been a make it or break it moment, and your answer said “let's make it”. So, do you want to be married or do you want to break up? After six years it's a fair question.
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Alright, she clearly wants marriage, and she's ready for this to happen. You guys should have a conversation about this, and you need to figure out if you're ready to marry her, or not. I imagine though, that if you're not, the relationship is over.
I should also tell you that if you aren't ready to tell Jeason you aren't ready to marry him. Honestly you shouldn't even be his gf. Not telling him is only for benefit of Tim. I assure your Jeason would prefer to know. If you are hiding something like this from him for the benefit of other person it shows how much you care about your boyfriend
Never clarified, completely changes the narrative over whether he's an alcoholic or if this story is a complete waste of time.
Was gonna say the same. She's being too naive. If she will resent her husband for holding her back about something that is for her own safety then she really needs to grow up.
OP also needs to remind wife that while he might have a particular set of skills, the skills are likely not going to help in a worst case scenario
You lack such self awareness it actually could be funny if you weren't royally fucking up the mental health of young women who's brains haven't even fully formed yet
Hiding anything like meetups or friendships or the nature of past relationships with someone isn't good. Your GF needs to break off all contact with that dude out of respect for your relationship and you need to discuss expectations and boundaries (on both sides).
I know some event organizers deal with no-shows by charging a security deposit that will be returned to the guest when they arrive in person or cancel before the deadline. But it's probably weird to do for non-professional events like weddings and birthday parties.
Idk MD, seems like you have better things to do than hang out with 30 something year old punks.
People dont “black out” and then make the conscious decision to go to a strip club, get a lap dance and follow a stripper on instagram. Alcohol impaired his decision making, but he still chose to do what he did.
So ignoring the fact that 9 months is too fucking quick to be buying a house together, do you have half of the deposit amount for the house he is looking at purchasing?
If you can’t put down half of the deposit, then you don’t get to go on the deed/title or mortgage.
So either put up, or shut up.
You can work on this by realizing that YOU are the only one of you who thinks you’re ‘back together.’ You’re actually the secret FWB or the side piece.
Tell your brother he deserved getting slapped, and he should apologize to your BF for being a racist a-hole. Jeez.
You tried therapy for how long?
Therapy doesn't fix the problem in 3 seconds. It talks time.
I think it was a limit setting slap. I'm not a violent person at all, but what people of color are faced with is outrageous.
I don't blame him. It's not like he broke anything. He didn't snap and beat the guy down.
I don't know all the details. It's probably a good idea to watch out for signs of dv or control, but this was an appropriate response
Your mother is trying to destroy your relationship with your dad.
He will not forgive you if you do this to him.
Dance with dad first and stepdad later.
Oh shit run. Mommas boy are THE fucking worst. That shit sounded gross as hell. ??????
Does it matter??!