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Date: November 1, 2022
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I honestly get you (unlike a lot of other commenters here) because I've been in abusive/bad relationships with people who used this kind of vague commenting/questioning to then turn it against me if I didn't magically mind read what they asking me to do. So when someone does it in a way where, even if they're trying to be polite now instead of passive and snarky, it can trigger my anxiety and panic response.
The way I have come to deal with it is to just bluntly turn around the question on the person vague-asking/commenting. “Are you suggesting I use sage instead of thyme? Is that what you want?” Because I want a direct discussion about it instead of dealing with what can turn into passive-aggressive grumbling or comments later on if I didn't infer that was what the person wanted (middle of dinner, getting comments like: “I still think this would have tasted better with sage, but you never listen to me.” Even if they never directly said they wanted sage instead.)
What did she say when you broke up with her and told her you did so because you couldn't be around her father anymore?
wtf noooooooooooooooo nope nope nope that’s heinous run as fast as you can
Dating decision tree: Are you having fun & feeling good about who he is?
Yes – keep dating
No – break up
People have this warped idea that you get extra points for being miserable or sidelined but willing to work at the relationship. Happy relationships really aren’t a lot of work. They really, really aren’t.
Your mantra for life should be: give no shit; take no shit.