Take the chicken out of the freezer. Hand it to him. Dinner is served. Then throw the whole man away. He’s never going to be a partner to you and will always have a million excuses for everything. You deserve so much better.
They refuse to take responsibility for their actions. Blaming you for this mess is disgusting. Please leave this awful man and cut off your awful friend. If you want the best for your kids, then you have to end this marriage. You also need to get individual counseling for yourself.
This is so so twisted.. I didn't try to groom anyone, I wasn't taking advantage of her situation for god's sake. I honestly just wanted to give them the life they deserve after all the shit they went through. And I liked her as a person. It's that simple. She even told me that that's what she wants – a simple life in a small town far from the place that is tied to her past.
OP was the co-worker, I think. And he was on the phone with someone telling hlthem he had plans with a co-worker when it was OP he had the plans with. So he's lying to her, and he's lying to many others!!
The one thing I have never understood about polyamory is this, how do they find the time? I barely have enough time for my wife let alone someone else.
If it didn’t really upset you, you wouldn’t be here. She sees nothing wrong with it, including the fact that it bothers you. She’s going to do what she wants no matter how you feel about it. If it bothers you that much, you need to end things. She needs to find a guy who doesn’t have a problem with it (good luck) and you need to find someone who doesn’t feel a need to display their bodies to the opposite sex.
Neither of you is right or wrong, your personal preferences are clashing and someone is not going to be happy if you two try to “work it out.” Sorry, sometimes it just doesn’t work.
The item I asked for was $150.
In the comment you're responding to, she said she asked for it…I know you want to blame OP but at least listen to what she's saying.
I understand. Thank you for clarifying.
Tell her you had a dream your dad heard about her dream and evicted you both.
Take the chicken out of the freezer. Hand it to him. Dinner is served. Then throw the whole man away. He’s never going to be a partner to you and will always have a million excuses for everything. You deserve so much better.
They refuse to take responsibility for their actions. Blaming you for this mess is disgusting. Please leave this awful man and cut off your awful friend. If you want the best for your kids, then you have to end this marriage. You also need to get individual counseling for yourself.
He says that he lives with his family but they're not close apparently. So that's why she's never been around.
I agree with you completely that the family he lives with is his wife and their kids because there's no convincing me that OP isn't the side piece.
This is so so twisted.. I didn't try to groom anyone, I wasn't taking advantage of her situation for god's sake. I honestly just wanted to give them the life they deserve after all the shit they went through. And I liked her as a person. It's that simple. She even told me that that's what she wants – a simple life in a small town far from the place that is tied to her past.
I think this is fake, it is however sort of happening to me over the last year-ish.
OP was the co-worker, I think. And he was on the phone with someone telling hlthem he had plans with a co-worker when it was OP he had the plans with. So he's lying to her, and he's lying to many others!!
The one thing I have never understood about polyamory is this, how do they find the time? I barely have enough time for my wife let alone someone else.
If it didn’t really upset you, you wouldn’t be here. She sees nothing wrong with it, including the fact that it bothers you. She’s going to do what she wants no matter how you feel about it. If it bothers you that much, you need to end things. She needs to find a guy who doesn’t have a problem with it (good luck) and you need to find someone who doesn’t feel a need to display their bodies to the opposite sex.
Neither of you is right or wrong, your personal preferences are clashing and someone is not going to be happy if you two try to “work it out.” Sorry, sometimes it just doesn’t work.