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Jess Thunderlink, 40 y.o.
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Date: December 5, 2022
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What do you mean there were no signs ? Your broke up. Specifically you broke up with him.
Take your own advice, work on yourself and respect his choice and move on. You sound young, there will be other guys, you will mature and be better equipped to deal with situations like this in the future. Just remember words are meaningful, always think before saying something stupid in heated situations.
So you don't actually need to “understand where he is coming from.”
Make sure you get your money back, and also make sure he appreciates that he isn't just wasting money, he is wasting your time. All the work that went in to signing for that house, and all the hours house hunting are wasted.
Then, make sure he appreciates what this does to you currently finding housing, because now you need to find a new place to on-line, right? A week out from closing, I imagine you have put in notice where you are renting/living, and even if you can just stay where you are, how were you planning and budgeting and what does this throw off?
Then, I imagine the kids were excited or at least preparing to move, and so there is some emotional fallout there.
I think you need to be honest with him about how much of a screw up this was. Sure, he shouldn't move in if he isn't ready and it is better for him to be honest, but being honest doesn't mean “faultless” because he really screwed up here.
Once you have really told him how much this messes with your actual time, emotions, and money, you can see his response, and then you can decide what to do. If he just keeps saying he is sorry and he was just being honest, well then you should exit the relationship. I don't think you can really decide that until you have fully confronted him and seen if he can really take ownership over the absolute fuckery of his decision.
I want to tell you that you should leave him. This is an indicator of a lot of other issues, if he waited this long to be honest, and it shows a lack of regard for your children's emotional health, your emotional health, and the relationship as a whole.
Your husband chose poorly in marriage and is now starting to realise he married an abuser. Good on him for realising his mistake!
Yeah I never force my children to do anything they are kids yes but they are people with their own boundaries and personalities They will be adults one day you got to remember that That will effect your relationship down the road I do my best to treat my kids equally my husband is more you do this I’m more of options and they pick I mean they are seriously human as much as we are
Yep when I was 19 I was literally AT work on the floor and a man who admitted to me he was over 50 years old screamed at me for refusing a date with him adding that I was “only saying no to impress people” mental illness is real y'all
Also, I would not allow him to move in with you right away. He needs to find his own place first and prove that he has changed and will be loyal. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s up to his old ways and when he moves in you’ll then be stuck with him
So , let me get this straight , you want to get back to your husband that physically and emotionally cheated on you ? Where is your common sense and pride ? Not only that , you still view this vile excuse of a human being as a prize that the other women is trying to take from you . He wouldn’t forgive you if he was in your place why are you being idiotic enough to forgive him ? You have zero backbone and he is going to cheat on you over and over and over again and you know what ? You deserve it for making such a bad decision and staying with this piece of shit . If you have one brain cell in you , you would have realized that this man does not love you and you’re just the stability he is currently lacking :that’s why he wants you back . The minute you decide you want time to think over the situation he will go off with her . Leave .
If you are both on the lease then it’s your house too. You don’t have to move out, he can.
Still waters run deep.
Options: 1) 'Fix' him, 2) learn to on-line with it, 3) or move on.
1 is unlikely. You're dating to find out if 2 or 3 are an option.
These are good suggestions.
It speaks more about the people who choose to cheat…..a cheater is a cheater no matter how good their partner treats them.. yikes
So there is a way to work this out just sit down with him and agree about how the frequency and take his feelings into consideration. We (women my age) went from men taking advantage of us to never wanting to give them anything. It is OK to have sex time sometimes when you’re not really that into it because you’ll get into it. And it’s OK to say no sometimes too but you got a find a balance so his needs are being met also.
That’s the plan. Leave her alone. Probably won’t leave this up too long
Just be careful about this. People may say the more the merrier because they don’t want to be jerks, but sometimes friends want to hang out without partners there. There’s nothing wrong with that. Being the buy who always has to bring his partner to everything can quickly put you on the outside.
Obviously in this instance it was good, but this is a pretty fringe case. Most of the time it isn’t an elaborate plot to frame you for cheating.
Of course you can do what you want. Bring your partner or don’t. Just be aware that it’s ok to do things separately sometimes and there may be social consequences for insisting your wife be with you every time you see your friends.
Sounds like OP is “keen” on using this poor guy.
What? How did you get that impression? “Poor guy”? The fuck?
Also if he is interested in OP she should be upfront that she isn't Interested so he doesn't invest time and money in trying to date her.
It is 100% not her responsibility to keep him from “investing time and money trying to date her”. Tell him she’s not interested, sure, but how this man chooses to spend his time and money are not her problem.
Work out somehow whether if she is attracted to girls. If not, then just stop all romantic hope with her and just be friends.
If she somehow is into girls, then you'll have to work out if you're willing to risk your current friendship for something more
You’d be surprised how many women view porn as cheating—or at the least disrespectful. It’s unlikely she’ll find much push back from her female friends on this. Plus, many people view it less as “her reason is silly” and more “he knew and didn’t even care that it would hurt her.” Women tend to have other women as friends. They’re not going to ignore that he chose to do something he knew would hurt her. Add on that she’s 16 days postpartum and they’re going to adamantly be on her side—even if they think porn being cheating is silly.
“Not good” is the correct way to feel in this situation. Another guy wants to hook up with your girlfriend, and your girlfriend is not rejecting him. That would make anyone feel awful.
You will end up very unhappy if you life your on-line trying to keep everyone happy.
Tell him clearly you break up (through text also fine at this stage seeing you already had a Convo and obviously find it difficult to navigate through this). Block all media and move on. You can not break up and keep him happy.
can I ask for an update?
Idk this makes sense to me? Shes saying that he did so well because hes the protagonist personality type- leaders that often excel in careers. You aren’t deficient though for not following. you just communicate differently.
Relationship god vladimir putin himself
Consider staying out of it. They're going to do whatever they decide to do. You're taking one side or the other is likely to leave you on the wrong side.
If you really cared about him, you would let him go and be happy that he's in a good mindset. You sound like a selfish brat expecting him to be sad and pining over you. Have you ever had a break-up before?
You f*cked up by not making time for him. Accept it and move on.
I told him that it’s a busy semester, wants to semesters done, I’m in Disney for a week again, and then we could go away for a weekend when I have the weekend off from work, or during the week since I won’t have nursing school. I guess he didn’t wanna wait. I thought he knew that when I started nursing school when we talked about my schedule.