You did nothing wrong if it’s a regular occurrence to worry about people hearing. Never speak or respond to her again. She is trying to gaslight you into questioning the what really happened. What you are describing is nothing even close to rape. Do every thing you can to protect yourself.
You encourage her to get professional help from a therapist.
It's obvious that you aren't a mental health specialist of any kind. You don't have the training, education, or experience, and you sure aren't objective of the whole situation. Right now, you can't help her beyond encouraging her to get help.
If she get's help, you can ask how best to support her.
But honestly this is all sorts of weird. Unless she isn't telling you the whole truth, she wasn't SA'ed herself.
If shes checking your phone
Its cause she has something she needs to hide on hers.
You did nothing wrong if it’s a regular occurrence to worry about people hearing. Never speak or respond to her again. She is trying to gaslight you into questioning the what really happened. What you are describing is nothing even close to rape. Do every thing you can to protect yourself.
You encourage her to get professional help from a therapist.
It's obvious that you aren't a mental health specialist of any kind. You don't have the training, education, or experience, and you sure aren't objective of the whole situation. Right now, you can't help her beyond encouraging her to get help.
If she get's help, you can ask how best to support her.
But honestly this is all sorts of weird. Unless she isn't telling you the whole truth, she wasn't SA'ed herself.
Do you have plans of confronting Faye?