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He respected himself by leaving you. I understand you regret your decision but it is your fault. You cant just talk about how you have bad mental health or trauma and that you don’t know how you had sex with someone else.
If you truly loved him you’d never do that. Learn from your mistakes. If you truly love him you’ll let him go because guess what I don’t think a guy will ever be able to get over what you did.
It’s not the end of the world for you both. Just learn from the experience you had with him. It’s gonna be painful and sure you’re gonna feel regret but it’ll be so hard for him to forgive you it’s not worth it unless you both really talk about it.
Idk how you cheat and can’t take full accountability for it and say you don’t know how it happened. One thing doesn’t just lead to another.
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And how is this helpful?
OP, listen to this. You need to plan for the worst and hope for the best. Don’t be a fool or naive
He respected himself by leaving you. I understand you regret your decision but it is your fault. You cant just talk about how you have bad mental health or trauma and that you don’t know how you had sex with someone else.
If you truly loved him you’d never do that. Learn from your mistakes. If you truly love him you’ll let him go because guess what I don’t think a guy will ever be able to get over what you did.
It’s not the end of the world for you both. Just learn from the experience you had with him. It’s gonna be painful and sure you’re gonna feel regret but it’ll be so hard for him to forgive you it’s not worth it unless you both really talk about it.
Idk how you cheat and can’t take full accountability for it and say you don’t know how it happened. One thing doesn’t just lead to another.
I get you’re upset about it but if you really want it to work you have to speak to him about it a lot so he forgives you because honestly I know id never forgive a cheater because I have respect for myself.
Thank you for taking the time to share your advice. My sister paid for the nose job herself with her life savings. My mom tried her hardest to convince her to fully recover first before getting any surgery but my sister would not listen. My sister said she is an adult and she could not stop her.
I think I have convinced my mother to go to therapy now, and we will start seeing a therapist together. I hope this will help us manage this nightmare better.
he said he understood their reaction to his sister being a lesbian..
he even said that “it’s different” when it’s your own family, like you should be upset if your family members are gay.
he even implied he’d be upset if his child was gay.
that is homophobic as fuck.