Tell her she can have the space, then kick her out.
She’s the one wanting to leave, so she goes.
Before you do, separate your finances. So if you don’t have a separate bank account, open one, take 50% of everything in the joint account and move it across.
Then file for divorce.
Take control back of your life. She has decided she doesn’t want to be apart of it anymore, so let her go.
Oh and chances are she has already cheated on you.
I agree with you that it was a little tasteless to post that and probably he’s not as fine as he would like you to believe.
Don’t listen to people who tell You not “prioritising the relationship” was wrong or you were immature. You did nothing like that.
Saying this he’s allowed to react however he wants. It seems he’s not only the post that bothers you but his general “ok” attitude. I don’t understand would you prefer for him to be miserable? And show it to you?
Everyone reacts in a different way, and he’s allow to.
This is what happens if you don't discuss these things in the early stages of your relationship.
A lot of people are homophobic. That's just the reality of it. You can't go into a relationship and assume your partner isn't, without actually hearing their thoughts about it. In fact, you should probably assume otherwise just to be on the safe side.
What can you do about it now? Probably nothing much. Mild homophobia won't really affect your life that much if you're not gay yourself. Just hope he isn't too radical about it so that he doesn't mess up his relationship with the kids in an event of them turning out to be gay.
Yep! Absolutely can be.
She must have rizz then.
You get help. Old lady who is NEVER right.
Depending on where they live, of they slept together, it's rape by deception
Tell her she can have the space, then kick her out.
She’s the one wanting to leave, so she goes.
Before you do, separate your finances. So if you don’t have a separate bank account, open one, take 50% of everything in the joint account and move it across.
Then file for divorce.
Take control back of your life. She has decided she doesn’t want to be apart of it anymore, so let her go.
Oh and chances are she has already cheated on you.
For him it was just sex, for you it was obviously more
You played yourself. Remove yourself from the situation and focus on your own life and relationships
Just stop obsessing!
I agree with you that it was a little tasteless to post that and probably he’s not as fine as he would like you to believe.
Don’t listen to people who tell You not “prioritising the relationship” was wrong or you were immature. You did nothing like that.
Saying this he’s allowed to react however he wants. It seems he’s not only the post that bothers you but his general “ok” attitude. I don’t understand would you prefer for him to be miserable? And show it to you?
Everyone reacts in a different way, and he’s allow to.
Follow his lead and move on.
This is what happens if you don't discuss these things in the early stages of your relationship.
A lot of people are homophobic. That's just the reality of it. You can't go into a relationship and assume your partner isn't, without actually hearing their thoughts about it. In fact, you should probably assume otherwise just to be on the safe side.
What can you do about it now? Probably nothing much. Mild homophobia won't really affect your life that much if you're not gay yourself. Just hope he isn't too radical about it so that he doesn't mess up his relationship with the kids in an event of them turning out to be gay.