Your story is lacking clarity. Are you exclusive or not? If you are, did this hookup happen before or after? It's all very confusing.
If you are not exclusive, he didn't cheat. The end. You can't hold it against him, not even his attempts to conceal it, because nobody talks openly about that shit, and really, it's not your business.
If you are exclusive, then there's no point in having the meeting at all, is there? The adult thing to do is to walk away clean. Wash your hands of it. Pluck him out of your life like a bad tooth and move on. Anything else is melodramatic and sophomoric.
You’re being an idiot and you’re going to ruin your relationship. She loves you, unless she gives you a reason to doubt her love knock it off!
Your story is lacking clarity. Are you exclusive or not? If you are, did this hookup happen before or after? It's all very confusing.
If you are not exclusive, he didn't cheat. The end. You can't hold it against him, not even his attempts to conceal it, because nobody talks openly about that shit, and really, it's not your business.
If you are exclusive, then there's no point in having the meeting at all, is there? The adult thing to do is to walk away clean. Wash your hands of it. Pluck him out of your life like a bad tooth and move on. Anything else is melodramatic and sophomoric.