To simply increase restrictions is not listening to his wants – he wants to do [insert activity] and breaks the rules to do it. Instead of treating it like a personal insult to your authority, treat it like a meaningful hobby that you could compromise further on. Think “ok, this seems really important to him, let’s try it his way for a few months”
Hm. Did he ever enquire about your health when he learned about your accident? Even with seat belts and airbags, people can get hurt. If the shape the car is in is more important to him than the shape you are in…
My ex felt this way too. In the end she was the one who cheated. I now see that this is a sign that you are not compatible with him. There is no evidence of wrong doing yet you still blame him.
You can try it but odds are you won’t get this out of your mind permanently so at some point the feeling you have now is going to get worse and will leak into other aspects of your relationship whether it’s your intention or not
LEAVE HER ALONE. Totally inappropriate that you're contacting her family or her multiple times. This is stalker behavior. She owes you no explanation. And her blocking you wasn't “all of a sudden” and “without warning.” You've broken up with her several times and recently told her she's suffocating you. And that you wished she found someone else! And then you cancelled your plans with her. Why on earth are you surprised that she's done talking to you at this point?? You wanted space for your feelings. She wants space from you period, and perhaps forever. She's entitled to that. You aren't entitled to her time or attention.
You've jerked her around half a dozen times before – what sane person thinks things will be “different” this time around? She's finally picked up on the pattern. The fact that you are not respecting her desire to be away from you is alarming. You need to leave her alone.
I like this – do not listen to haters. The point is though to be cool and calm towards everybody. The problem is often that you have kept things from them snd when a toxic person like your sister put forward a toxic version of what happened – it is difficult to change. Remember it is a romantic and a bit tragic story!
Lawyer here. Print all of that nonsense and bring it with you to court or mediation (in some states, mediation is mandatory for small claims actions). Agreements to pay have to be free of coercion and duress. His threats and ridiculous behavior are abusive and manipulative, and classics duress. He’s trying everything to keep in contact/control. Stand up to him.
To simply increase restrictions is not listening to his wants – he wants to do [insert activity] and breaks the rules to do it. Instead of treating it like a personal insult to your authority, treat it like a meaningful hobby that you could compromise further on. Think “ok, this seems really important to him, let’s try it his way for a few months”
Has she been adding them on snap or on the console as a friend?
Hm. Did he ever enquire about your health when he learned about your accident? Even with seat belts and airbags, people can get hurt. If the shape the car is in is more important to him than the shape you are in…
My ex felt this way too. In the end she was the one who cheated. I now see that this is a sign that you are not compatible with him. There is no evidence of wrong doing yet you still blame him.
You can try it but odds are you won’t get this out of your mind permanently so at some point the feeling you have now is going to get worse and will leak into other aspects of your relationship whether it’s your intention or not
LEAVE HER ALONE. Totally inappropriate that you're contacting her family or her multiple times. This is stalker behavior. She owes you no explanation. And her blocking you wasn't “all of a sudden” and “without warning.” You've broken up with her several times and recently told her she's suffocating you. And that you wished she found someone else! And then you cancelled your plans with her. Why on earth are you surprised that she's done talking to you at this point?? You wanted space for your feelings. She wants space from you period, and perhaps forever. She's entitled to that. You aren't entitled to her time or attention.
You've jerked her around half a dozen times before – what sane person thinks things will be “different” this time around? She's finally picked up on the pattern. The fact that you are not respecting her desire to be away from you is alarming. You need to leave her alone.
Forced what?
You are not living together.
Get a grip.
Talk to her 1 on 1 about cheating then secretly record the whole thing and show it everybody to prove your innocence
I like this – do not listen to haters. The point is though to be cool and calm towards everybody. The problem is often that you have kept things from them snd when a toxic person like your sister put forward a toxic version of what happened – it is difficult to change. Remember it is a romantic and a bit tragic story!
Lawyer here. Print all of that nonsense and bring it with you to court or mediation (in some states, mediation is mandatory for small claims actions). Agreements to pay have to be free of coercion and duress. His threats and ridiculous behavior are abusive and manipulative, and classics duress. He’s trying everything to keep in contact/control. Stand up to him.
Bio dad 100%. Your mother sounds evil. Updateme!