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Happy weekend guys, ║ enjoy with me! make me moan ║ Goal.: Play boobs [Multi Goal]
Date: October 8, 2022
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Happy weekend guys, ║ enjoy with me! make me moan ║ Goal.: Play boobs [Multi Goal]
Not especially no.
Put your safety first. Have a friend or family member you trust with you to run interference if you need help getting out, packing, etc.
You should absolutely go home and not feel guilty about taking the baby. He has been instrumental in creating a hostile environment here amongst the people you know in a country that is not yours and now for his sake it seems people expect you to remain in this place without support or family and basically raise a child with his partial If any involvement?
I don’t think so. He sounds as mature as a the fetus you are carrying and guess what else? People will treat you as if all you are is a mother after you give birth. It will be like you have one job with no consideration for you as an individual person which is why I’m not surprised people think you should stay her with the kid like your feelings don’t count. Well they do. You are just as important as you always were and deserve to be happy while raising your child and please don’t forget that despite what others will say. He can fly to Britain to visit if he wants. Just like everyone else. Good luck in everything coming up, and I hope you find a happy life for yourself. Also we all fall for guys (or girls) bulls**t at some point. Don’t beat yourself up too much over this tool.
Although uncommon, there are numerous examples of magic happening. No two couples are the same.
I had a roommate whose father had a first date with a girl and went to diner with her parents. On the ride home, he got food poisoning and projectile vomited all over her dad’s car. Been married 50 years.
Another couple was together within a week. 40 years strong.
Yes, mistakes will happen, but those with their heads screwed on right would see those as learning lessons and life experiences. Your support of your roommate could prove a world of difference.
I wouldn't normally offer this kind of advice but… This is the RED FLAG of all red flags. Nothing, and I mean nothing good will come of this relationship if you stay in it. This attitude is almost always a precursor to abuse.
I wish you the best with it. Good luck 🙂
Family is different. It’s ingrained into us to forgive our family, and it’s “family, we take care of each other” but that’s not reality. Did you “miss your I Sister, or the idea of her.” Someone mentioned you may like the chaos but I don’t think that. I think you are trying to save her, I think you need to step away and take a deep breath from them. Your mom is not helping, guilt in family is horrid and strong.
I'm not concerned about him having a “spiritual” drug trip with a friend no matter the sex of the individual. Bad choice to have the experience on the bed.
No, this is real, i posted it on 3 different groups..
Thanks!
Happy cake day!!!!
“I think she wants to have sex she just doesn't want people to hear us” . You assumed she wanted sex, right there. You assumed and that is the problem.
Kick him to the curb. He has no respect for you.
I am sure he put the time to research the meaning of this gemstone, he made sure all the details were right. The ring speaks of his true feelings and intentions!
Personally I love to hear ” Lets bring my very hot friend over for a 3some.” During sex.
Poor baby is all I can say. You can't even be mad at her for cheating because at least she told you. You deserve each other.
Absolutely not.
A platonic friend is fine. Platonic being haven't fucked, kissed, no type of sexual contact. He's meeting up to have lunch with an old fuck buddy. I would be uncomfortable too. Also, it just looks bad on his part.
great, thanks!! i don’t think he has a girlfriend, but i need to make sure he doesn’t before i proceed. how can i ask him without making it awkward lmaooo
Sounds like he's just coasting until someone he deems better comes along.
Doesn't want to move. Doesn't want long-distance relationship. Doesn't think she's “long-term” material. He just needs to break up, because Jesus, he's wasting her time.
Have a 3way
Yeah majority of “breaks” are so the person that brought it up can fuck others.
Although I do think that a break with strict rules and consistent commitment can be beneficial.
It can show what you will lose, and also what you will gain, by being alone.
But a break should never ever be a pause on commitment. That's just cheating with extra steps.
If he's okay with it then cool if not then he'll leave.
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I can see how that would get you angry. She doesn’t see to care that she was messing with him even though he was in a relationship. And she didn’t care if you got hurt in the end.
Seems like these two have a long history and who know exactly what he has been telling her over the years. He’s probably stringing her along enough to make her think that eventually he will choose her, even though she has a kid.
Honestly, I hope you dump his undeserving ass.
If you want more time to look for more experiences, it sounds like she'd be open to that. Or ask if you can get on a plane to enjoy the orgy with her. But if you're just upset she has more people wanting to fuck her then you do, that's not a problem we can solve. And it likely won't be different for anyone else you date.
For me, I wouldn't want to be with someone after they've been to an orgy. Just a difference in values. If that's your position, be sure to tell her it's a deal breaker for you. But if it's just that you're jealous that she gets that experience and you don't, that's not reasonable.
I hope that you face the truth about your situation.
Anyone who would agree with that is rolling over their own spouse.
He is separated. But I feel naive even saying so, writing this down and reading it to myself brings alot into perspective for me. I’m beginning to realize that holidays and special occasions come n go and he’s not around for me to even celebrate with. I mean from Valentine’s Day to Christmas, it’s always something. I feel foolish at this point.
If your ex is willing to throw away your 3 year relationship because he doesn’t like a family member, you can’t stop him. Don’t throw away your entire family (who sounds like they’re a good, supportive family) for this guy.
Sounds like he trying to skip foreplay
Not overthinking but rather expecting her to read your mind / think like you. If you communicate that you want the care and company she might have cancelled.
I would have put the dog down the same time as the cat.
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Just to clarify i was 17 and he was 20 when we got together. it’s a 2 year age gap (he’s december im january) We’ve been together nearly two years. But yeah the number situation really pissed me off like WTF
Thats their issue, not mine
Oof, ok, good luck with that attitude.
When I was 27 I went on a date with a 22 year old because at the time the age difference didn’t seem that bad. It really highlighted just how fundamentally different of a stage of life that person was in compared to me. The older you get the more settled you are, whereas people under 25 tend to still be trying to figure out who they are, what they want, and what direction they are heading in life. You can’t really get a serious relationship out of someone in that stage of life, unless you’re going through that experience together.
Maybe it’s the way you came across? It’s easy for readers to read what you’ve said and imagine the scenario with you being genuinely curious and not at all suspicious but that may not be how it really seemed to him. Or he’s just being an asshole lol
Well i wouldn't stay with someone who lied about sex if he gave me an STD. He's showing hes untrustworthy.
Sounds like he was grooming you.
You consented to be his unofficial backup plan after he was honest from the start. If anything, you betrayed yourself.
Because you've made it clear you'll put up with it forever.
Accusing your partner of cheating always show that you don't trust your partner. I understand why she trough that, especially given both of your poor communication, but this was clearly the wrong way.
She stopped trusting you. And without trust a relationship is not saveable. Divorce is the best option here.
Have you even tried? I think you’re just addicted to masturbating tbh.
'For me, it’s very hot to sleep unless I get off somehow. I just end up tossing and turning, feeling horny, and eventually giving in and jerking off at like 2am'
It seems strange to me that you HAVE to get off to be able to physically go to sleep each night.
How is this strange to you? Some people are like this. I also toss and turn for ages. When I wank, and cum, it's sleep time within 2 minutes.
I think her reasoning is alright. You didn't seem into it so she went and got a new partner. Dancing with someone else isn't disrespectful in itself. Just seems like a miscommunication issue..
Since nothing came of it then it's fine.
Thanks for the encouragement, I'll give it a shot. The fact that we're still living together can make me forget that I don't have much left to lose, so I need to keep that front of mind.
Your husband is not a good man. He is a man who may do good things but only on his terms.
Quick question did she want the renovation or did she go along. As a contractor I see this a lot when 1 partner isn’t on board but go’s along thinking it’s easier then fighting it. Usually never is and these problems surface.
Oh god another wannabe red pill high value man??♂️
Some men are able to do what he’s talking about but unless he’s incredibly good looking and/or rich he’s just being a delusional asshole…Even amongst those types of men many/most are happily loyal
With that said if he IS incredibly good looking and/or rich he’s not necessarily wrong but he’s still being an asshole about it
They're all on the internet pretty much 24/7 so that's not an excuse
Choking you and pinning you down is physical, violent assault.
Stop making excuses and get yourself to safety.
Thank you, you're the first person to understand what I'm saying. The thing is, I didn't want her to tell him that it's because of me. Also, I told her that I would prefer if she doesn't speak to him, so why suddenly put the blame on me? If she decided after all not to speak to him, it's not necessary to say it's because of me. It would've been best in my opinion to have told him the truth (if it is) or to just have said nothing and answered him like nothing happened. She ignored him maybe 2 days and they didn't spoke everyday anyways. So I can't know which one it is, she doesn't want to or she wants to but can't because of me.
I fucking love anime but find the idea of it happening in real life to be cringe as well. If you aren’t cool with it you just gotta have that talk with him.
No I haven't watched it yet but I could give it a go thanks!!
Brutal but truth.
Let me ask a question: do you want to love him for the person who he is right now with zero changes or do you want to love him to heal him to make him the man he could be?
Also, do you think if you love him enough to heal him that and he becomes the man he could be that he will be forever grateful and never leave you?
I would not marry her. It will only get worse.
Fuck that noise do you want to be with a person that think that low of you shame on them
The OP also has siblings. It's not just cutting off a father and female figure you appreciate. It's your siblings….
I get the moms hurt and I get that she needed to protect her mental health.
But the ultimatum was not right.
I hope she can heal and realize her worth, because then the ex won't matter.
Clothing rituals?
Not at all. Go for it hun,he might be expecting it.
He's not struggling, though.
You're focused on the wrong thing here with that last question. If he doesn't feel the same way, you need to end the situation anyway. It's very hot, and it sucks, but that's reality here. Shoot your shot. What will be will be. Good luck.
There's no cure for narcissism, dear. Start reading up on these disorders and you'll understand why this is a losing battle. Cut your losses and move on.
Can you clarify some details?
You’re 30, she’s 28 and have been together for 10 years. During those 10 years you had two children together.
Then you mention being in an abusive relationship for the past 10 years.
Over the past year it sounds like it go so bad social services removed the children from the home and placed them with your parents whom you are also now living with.
Your partner is in therapy and seems to be doing well but over the weekend she had went out with friends and was venting to them about you. You’re concerned because she’s cheated on you with two of them before.
What is your question? Are you asking if she’s cheating on you, or if you two should get back together…? Can you clarify?
How did he explain/ justify the ring debacle? “I wanted to put a stamp of ownership on you”? And how did he react to being broken up with?
I don't think enough is said about the screenshots of a conversation to prove a point. It could come off as prudish but fuck that. My group of mates, yeah old stories of exes and one night stands go into detail but those of us who are committed the depth never really goes past “the sex is good”. Imo the way it should be.
Did your father promise not to raise his hand to you again?
You think a man raised in a misogynistic culture where women are subservient, would learn not to hit his daughter, because you ask him nicely not to? You know that is absolutely ridiculous right?
Right. Because what she really wants is YOU.
But if you are against that idea for whatever reason, i'd still say send her a nice Gift at some point in the future. Even if her reasons were self-interested, the fact remains she saved you from a disaster marriage with a really bad person.
If you're open to seeing BF romantically in the future, I wish you both the best. But it does make me a bit suspicious that she mentioned your wealth when she was giving reasons why she did this.
Either way, for the next few weeks you just take some time to heal and focus on yourself. You can decide when, how and with whom you want to move on when you're a bit more emotionally stable.
He isn't reply because this post was so long ago… you know back in the day when he posted it… he moved on.. or she has since this post
You're setting yourself up for a woman that becomes regretful parent, which typically ends in divorce.
Kids are non negotiable and women are becoming more (rightly) empowered to say no to motherhood. I succumbed to pressure and now I am a parent when I never should have been.
I applaud her.
Do you think those are the only two options?
It seems that the guys they keep forgiving the cheating get cheated on by the same person over and over. It’s almost like once a cheater always a cheater should be some kind of saying.
Unfortunately you’re right. So is talking about sex life normal? I can’t remember a time when my friends even bothered to being it up because we have more to talk about than porn..
Please don’t throw the word ‘pedophile’ around when everyone involved is an adult
I mean why do you have to? Barring talking about stds/stis I don’t see a reason. Body count is so damn arbitrary and says nothing about you as a person.
That's the way! And a job can even help with the “Depression bouts”, as having a job which is meaningfull to you can be a pillar for good mental health.
All I'm hearing is me me me me me
yea… I know but what can I do to not have it happen without having to sit and worry anytime I leave home.
Most men, I included, do NOT need to choke their girl to get off.
You are fine, your current flame is fine.
This is really sad, and it's very hot to say.
I think if you broke up with your current boyfriend and went back to your ex you would eventually regret it, but maybe you're not in a place to be committed to anyone right now.
This is really sad, and it's hot to say.
I think if you broke up with your current boyfriend and went back to your ex you would eventually regret it, but maybe you're not in a place to be committed to anyone right now.
Why would you stay with someone who so flagrantly mislead you about his expectations for marriage? Yeesh. Run away.
Literally don't need to read the post when the title has multiple red flags.
This guy is a loser, dating young women because he likes the power dynamic. Not surprising that he's also controlling and hypocritical.
Please, for the love of God, don't waste any more of your twenties on this man.
No one in the group has played D&D before, out of my friends I’m probably the most creative (I write fantasy) so it’s right up my street and I’ve always spoke about giving it a go. I think I’m alright to be around, I’m generally quite bubbly and always make sure people are included in conversation. When I do see them they tell me how much they like me, but then never seem to take much interest unless I make the plans (or buy the drinks) ?
fair and valid point. he does this with other things, like his room being clean for example. it sounds stupid, but i’ve begged him to clean his room for days. it’s a disaster and his laundry was literally stinking the room. i offered to help him clean it but he said he wants to “do it himself”. tonight i asked him again and he said he will this weekend. i started his laundry and he got upset because it’s his laundry. i did it anyway because the mess and smell was bothering me.
definitely having a talk with him in the morning. typing and talking about it really makes me realize how ridiculous this is.
Ok wow. This is a LOT. There’s nothing wrong with causal dating especially at your age. You aren’t dating to get married you are dating for FUN and you are dating to see what kind of man you like and don’t like. You are also learning and experiencing what you will and what you will not tolerate in a relationship. You also don’t marry an older financially stable person. You marry someone you love. Marriage is damn very hot and without love as a background it’s hell. You are setting yourself up for misery and abuse if you are just looking for older and someone with money. Heck YOU can and should make your own money! Don’t rely on a guy to take care of you, always have a plan and a way to support yourself if SHTF. (I’m old enough to be your mom BTW). While I can’t say I love the difference in your ages traditionally in THIS case there is zero wrong with having fun and casual times with a younger guy. Relax. You’ve don’t nothing wrong and there are no SHOULD’s when you are 21. Have fun. Stop beating yourself up over having a fun time with a guy. It sounds incredibly innocent and fun. No big deal
This is true and I bring it up a lot to him but he doesn’t feel the same way.
Logically, if he wasn't ready, then why'd he agree for you to move in? It's really unfair to you if he knew that and you wasted all of this time, money and effort on moving in, experiencing it, and moving out. Wasn't willing to communicate it? That's really a fundamental and monumental issue.
I'm happy to hear that things have improved. You're certainly right about needing more conversations and you shouldn't move in until all of that occurs. But I'm honestly still hung up on not understanding why you (as in both of you) were unable to make these steps to solve the issue while you were still living together.
You've been acting like a protective mother for him and he's decided he's not going to grow up, but keep doing studenty things (except the useful studying).
He's stuck in Groundhog Day and he ain't moving. It sounds like you've had enough. It seems the solution is pretty obvious.
“she is the closest thing to Vietnamese out of any of them”.
Haha, and? That means nothing. She isn’t Vietnamese. that sttement is not a moral high ground or victory.
Your girlfriend is a flat out racist, dude, and not a very smart one. Ask her about the Uyghers in Chinese camps if she tries to shame you about your race again.
Why are you with her?
“she is the closest thing to Vietnamese out of any of them”.
Haha, and? That means nothing. She isn’t Vietnamese. that sttement is not a moral high ground or victory.
Your girlfriend is a flat out racist, dude, and not a very smart one. Ask her about the Uyghers in Chinese camps if she tries to shame you about your race again.
Why are you with her?
The best part of a relationship is learning new things about yourself
The only important things to keep an eye on are red flags and your boundaries.
If you don't want to be in a relationship with her you have to stop having sex with her. You're clearly incapable of being around her without taking her up on her sexual overtures and you're never going to be free of her until you simply stop seeing her, ever.
And that it is so morally wrong
You can say no, or you can ignore it. You do not have to go. It's fine to say Thank you for your invite, but I do not wish to go to church.
Your post sounds like a textbook case cheater discovery. Check out r/survivinginfidelity