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I mean this kindly but this is like the worst advice. I understand if that's your take, but then again why is my mother trying to set us up. The issue is, my ex isn't there on weekdays. She's there when I am there.
Lastly, your answer just is saying “its her life, she can do as she pleases”. To which I reply, “so like do you want me to stop seeing my mother? because I can't keep dealing with this”. Furthermore, is that doing more harm than good then as she is alone and I am all the family she has left.
I’ve been married for ten years. My husband will straight up tell me when he doesn’t like how I’ve done my hair. But he’s not going to treat me like shit because of it. He doesn’t like me wearing pony tails all the time (when I had long hair) or having my hair straighten since I’ve cut my hair shorter. there’s opinions and then there’s being a dick because you don’t like something trivial. Dude needs a reality check.
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I don't see the problem. She's a woman. You are having a good time with her. You've had sex and I assume you enjoyed it. What's the problem?
Leave her alone. She deserves better than a cowardly, entitled, selfish partner who blames her for being assaulted.
You have a lot of growing up to do before you’re ready to be in any relationships. Your stance here is really disgusting.
I mean this kindly but this is like the worst advice. I understand if that's your take, but then again why is my mother trying to set us up. The issue is, my ex isn't there on weekdays. She's there when I am there.
Lastly, your answer just is saying “its her life, she can do as she pleases”. To which I reply, “so like do you want me to stop seeing my mother? because I can't keep dealing with this”. Furthermore, is that doing more harm than good then as she is alone and I am all the family she has left.
I’ve been married for ten years. My husband will straight up tell me when he doesn’t like how I’ve done my hair. But he’s not going to treat me like shit because of it. He doesn’t like me wearing pony tails all the time (when I had long hair) or having my hair straighten since I’ve cut my hair shorter. there’s opinions and then there’s being a dick because you don’t like something trivial. Dude needs a reality check.
You were absolutely 100% raped. Others have already given you great advice, I suggest you take it.