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JanneYoung Public Chat Channel
Date: November 20, 2022
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JanneYoung Public Chat Channel
But all those are things she said to you. They could very well be lies. Why bother with a person like that ? Why chose to stay with that image of him pulling his zipper up and her with her pants down for the rest of your life? This is like torturing yourself… she told you herself,she chose to fuck him ,she wanted this. Why don't you leave,give yourself time to heal and then find someone who's grateful having you as a partner? The fact that some misfortune found you guys doesn't give her the right to treat you shitty
Don’t be someone’s second choice. She is only crawling back to you because the loser she was with left her and she can see how well you’re doing. To put it in sophisticated terms: She belongs to the streets. Good day sir.
He's intentionally avoiding a real conversation about it because then you are obligated to just take care of her and hope the conversation happens another time. It's easier to ask forgiveness rather than ask permission. You've already expressed what you want, but he's not interested at all in compromising as a couple to make things work. Is he just doing this to avoid paying child support? Is his work schedule unpredictable? I've done school full time and work full time, it's a mess and very exhausting. He should not be putting the childcare responsibility on you, especially without telling you.
I'd have a serious talk that he is making your life harder, he refuses to listen to your needs, he is making you take care of his child. His response and immediate action will tell you if this is worth staying together. I don't think it's worth staying.
Washing/showering before sex is like wiping after a shit, neither is a curtesy, it’s a damn requirement, lol
There’s possibility,he said I’m attractive but nothing direct about whether he likes me
There’s a lot I can say about a man that wants to plan a destination get-away while his pregnant wife is back at home. A cheater isn’t automatically one of them.
You can’t be dating someone you haven’t seen before. This is so unsafe and sketchy. He could be someone else entirely and that’s why you’ve never seen him. This is how romance scams begin. Yikes.
Well if your mom said your bf could have came to those events, it sounds like they expect him to show up whenever you're there since you've been in a relationship for 15 years. But since you somehow haven't put this together, now your parents will be surprised when it's brought up that he's coming.
In the last few years, when you show up to these events, do your parents ask where he is or why he didn't come? Unless they say “don't bring your bf” I think it's safe to assume they expect him there. I think you've been excluding him on your own. You don't need to invite the partner of your child when they have been together for over a decade.
Your sister's bf needs an invite cuz they are still in the “baby stage” of the relationship.
Unless the cat is chipped to provide proof of ownership, she has no legal recourse. I wouldn't worry about that side of things.
You do need to break up with this person. They are toxic and possibly dangerous. Your goal with breaking up, and especially with taking the cat, should be ensuring your safety from retaliation.
Her mental state is not your responsibility. If she goes off the deep end after breaking up, thats not your problem unless she targets you afterward.
Literally anything can get you bullied as a kid. I have never in my childhood or adult life heard of someone being bullied for a hyphenated last name. This shouldn't be anywhere near a deciding factor.
You want to walk away from something that is 90% great? Have you tried therapy?
Get a new account without him