You already know what we’re going to say. 4 months in things should be light and fun – it should be an escape. The fact that you’ve spent the honeymoon phase reassuring him and walking on eggshells is concerning. If this is him at his best behavior what is he gonna be like two years form now?
What if she used a condom found used? Doesn't matter who used it, that is not the perpetrator…! The act is despicable enough to not point to a blood relative, sorry…
Wait is she asking you to make a monthly payment on the phone itself? As in, you financed it? If so, that does seem fair to me (unless she also used a loan to buy your PS5).
But if she’s asking you to pay for her phone plan, that’s super silly.
Not saying no doesn’t necessarily mean you consented. But without any fear or coercion or lack of ability to express your disapproval; after a certain point if you keep accepting the handjob you’ve consented.
If he froze out of fear, I’d say that is still assault. But if he just got caught up in the moment—which is understandable—that’s not really assault.
“Hey gf, I just want to be up-front, if you are more comfortable in a non-sexual relationship, we'd be better off as friends. A sexless relationship is a dealbreaker for me, and I don't see that changing anytime soon between us. So I think, at a minimum, we should take a break, see other people, and consider whether we actually want to be together.”
Has your girlfriend done anything to make you doubt her (other than staying in contact with the ex on Snapchat)? How did she respond when you mentioned it made you uncomfortable?
Well, I have tons of other addictions to shopping to read it even to going to school for so long. So I have found other things. But yeah, I had a whole life because of it and that I would’ve never had. I would’ve been dead long ago. Good luck to you.
Every comment you make leads me to believe this “friend” is lying.
No one is that good an actor. You would have noticed something/anything on uour own by now. Usually revelations like this confirm a nagging feeling. You’ve had none.
What is the friend’s motive? You report being safe and treated well. It’s not like she had reason to warn you, did she?
The sub is toxic af? You’re the one letting the boy continue to make furniture for you despite the fact that you don’t live together and you hate the pieces.
He’s insecure that you make a lot of money and have more education than he does. Doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship from the get go.
Honestly you should’ve left the first time you saw it because there’s no way you saw her the same after that. But you gave it a chance and now you know how badly she misses and lusts for his dick. In fact every time you didn’t make her nut she went home, got her vibrator and pulled up her fave homemade video
Whaaat is happening in the comments? Are people seriously mad that someone thinks it's wrong and feels disgusted by their parents having a relationship? I would too if my MIL started dating my father.
Sweetheart did you not consider that with your completely incompatible schedules cresting a vast distance between you that he already felt alone while with someone else? He's emotionally already cut ties. You're at different stages of grief. When I felt alone with my ex, the feeling of being alone changed when we separated. Because I was alone by choice, not feeling lonely while with somebody.
So the group you're going with consists of a cheater (2 if you include the manager), a person who doesn't respect anyone's relationship and is happy to cheat with married people/ people in a relationship. If we exclude the manager there are 2 people with whom your friend Hannah have been intimate. My question to you is why are you so desperate to go on a trip with this group? Can't you and your boyfriend make plans to go to Scotland if you really want to?
Also your title should be
My bf (29M) doesn't want me (28F) to go on holiday with work colleagues colleagues including a few who have no respect for relationships.
My bf doesn’t think Hannah cares about me, and that she doesn’t like the fact I'm in a stable relationship, and she doesn’t have my best interests at heart. He thinks she wants me to be lonely like she is.
Your boyfriend is smart enough to identify this. You're taking relationship advice from someone who is not in a relationship but is someone who is happy to ruin someone else's relationship.
At 22 he still has a lot of maturing to do. You are fully mature as far as I can tell. You could wait around for him to grow up, but who wants to listen to the BS he spouts in the meanwhile?
You already know what we’re going to say. 4 months in things should be light and fun – it should be an escape. The fact that you’ve spent the honeymoon phase reassuring him and walking on eggshells is concerning. If this is him at his best behavior what is he gonna be like two years form now?
Leave. You know you have to.
What if she used a condom found used? Doesn't matter who used it, that is not the perpetrator…! The act is despicable enough to not point to a blood relative, sorry…
Wait is she asking you to make a monthly payment on the phone itself? As in, you financed it? If so, that does seem fair to me (unless she also used a loan to buy your PS5).
But if she’s asking you to pay for her phone plan, that’s super silly.
Not saying no doesn’t necessarily mean you consented. But without any fear or coercion or lack of ability to express your disapproval; after a certain point if you keep accepting the handjob you’ve consented.
If he froze out of fear, I’d say that is still assault. But if he just got caught up in the moment—which is understandable—that’s not really assault.
“Hey gf, I just want to be up-front, if you are more comfortable in a non-sexual relationship, we'd be better off as friends. A sexless relationship is a dealbreaker for me, and I don't see that changing anytime soon between us. So I think, at a minimum, we should take a break, see other people, and consider whether we actually want to be together.”
i was thinking about it that way, about how i'd learn from it but i was scared that i was using him to learn instead of liking him. but i do like him
Has your girlfriend done anything to make you doubt her (other than staying in contact with the ex on Snapchat)? How did she respond when you mentioned it made you uncomfortable?
Well, I have tons of other addictions to shopping to read it even to going to school for so long. So I have found other things. But yeah, I had a whole life because of it and that I would’ve never had. I would’ve been dead long ago. Good luck to you.
As a woman who got pregnant with my kids… both “oopsies”… at 38 and 41, you are being crazy. Don't let the internet make your life choices.
Rehome the sweet pup to an experienced dog owners of large dogs. Your fiancé & the dog will never get a long. Baby dog will NEVER trust your fiancé.
Please do not get another dog!
Your fiancé does not sound like an ideal dog owner. He should have been going to all the training etc . I also don't know anyone who yells at a pup!
Maybe a cat would be better for him. Nothing wrong with that!
Every comment you make leads me to believe this “friend” is lying.
No one is that good an actor. You would have noticed something/anything on uour own by now. Usually revelations like this confirm a nagging feeling. You’ve had none.
What is the friend’s motive? You report being safe and treated well. It’s not like she had reason to warn you, did she?
Do you get the vibe that he thinks you’re dumb or at least he thinks that he’s smarter than you?
The sub is toxic af? You’re the one letting the boy continue to make furniture for you despite the fact that you don’t live together and you hate the pieces.
He’s insecure that you make a lot of money and have more education than he does. Doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship from the get go.
Honestly you should’ve left the first time you saw it because there’s no way you saw her the same after that. But you gave it a chance and now you know how badly she misses and lusts for his dick. In fact every time you didn’t make her nut she went home, got her vibrator and pulled up her fave homemade video
What an oddly menacing thought. Oh gawd, the pig is in my court!
Why are you still with this lady??
Whaaat is happening in the comments? Are people seriously mad that someone thinks it's wrong and feels disgusted by their parents having a relationship? I would too if my MIL started dating my father.
Go seek therapy so you don’t make the same mistake again
Heads up, if he “thinks” you are cheating on him, he will treat you like you are cheating on him. That's all
I have a bf
Sweetheart did you not consider that with your completely incompatible schedules cresting a vast distance between you that he already felt alone while with someone else? He's emotionally already cut ties. You're at different stages of grief. When I felt alone with my ex, the feeling of being alone changed when we separated. Because I was alone by choice, not feeling lonely while with somebody.
So the group you're going with consists of a cheater (2 if you include the manager), a person who doesn't respect anyone's relationship and is happy to cheat with married people/ people in a relationship. If we exclude the manager there are 2 people with whom your friend Hannah have been intimate. My question to you is why are you so desperate to go on a trip with this group? Can't you and your boyfriend make plans to go to Scotland if you really want to?
Also your title should be
My bf (29M) doesn't want me (28F) to go on holiday with work colleagues colleagues including a few who have no respect for relationships.
My bf doesn’t think Hannah cares about me, and that she doesn’t like the fact I'm in a stable relationship, and she doesn’t have my best interests at heart. He thinks she wants me to be lonely like she is.
Your boyfriend is smart enough to identify this. You're taking relationship advice from someone who is not in a relationship but is someone who is happy to ruin someone else's relationship.
At 22 he still has a lot of maturing to do. You are fully mature as far as I can tell. You could wait around for him to grow up, but who wants to listen to the BS he spouts in the meanwhile?