These are questions you should be asking your sponsor, and other folks in recovery. If you’re only a few months in, the answer is going to be no, you need to leave these people alone for now. Stop bothering them. Focus on you and fixing yourself. It sounds like that will be a full-time job.
I question your recovery, since you don’t seem to understand anything about what making amends should involve.
Sorry brother, that’s really tough to hear. Personally, there’s no coming back from a situation like this. The trust is broken completely. Who knows what else she’s capable of hiding or lying about? Do you want to live in paranoia? The child doesn’t deserve a toxic household that lacks trust and maintains bitterness and resentment. It’s time to plan to get a lawyer and file for divorce. This is irreconcilable. Best of luck.
I'd be doing it tomorrow if I was you. She's treating you as a pet, not a partner.
Just save yourself the heartache. Call it quits. He just doesn’t want to be the bad guy. But he’s got goals that involve other girls.
You're not alone
Divorce…or marriage counseling. These are the two choices.
These are questions you should be asking your sponsor, and other folks in recovery. If you’re only a few months in, the answer is going to be no, you need to leave these people alone for now. Stop bothering them. Focus on you and fixing yourself. It sounds like that will be a full-time job.
I question your recovery, since you don’t seem to understand anything about what making amends should involve.
don’t care what your concerns are, she was 17 and you were 21. weird.
Given the age it’s probably porn induced erectile dysfunction.
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Lol this isn’t control. This is reasonable.
i think there are things i resent too, but they feel so inconsequential in comparison.
for a long time things didn’t feel like this and i don’t know if it’s repairable, if i’m fixable or if it’s doomed
Sorry brother, that’s really tough to hear. Personally, there’s no coming back from a situation like this. The trust is broken completely. Who knows what else she’s capable of hiding or lying about? Do you want to live in paranoia? The child doesn’t deserve a toxic household that lacks trust and maintains bitterness and resentment. It’s time to plan to get a lawyer and file for divorce. This is irreconcilable. Best of luck.
Of course do not do this.