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take off my panties [Multi Goal]
Date: November 18, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
take off my panties [Multi Goal]
I don’t know what you mean. To be honest, if you already let him know you’re around and available, and he hasn’t asked you out, he’s most likely simply not interested.
The confident thing to do is to forget about him and find someone who’s actually into you.
The problem is now over the last 3 months my anxiety has became a lot worse I’ve had to go on anti depressants agin for it
Huge red flag. Relationships shouldn't be impacting your mental health like this. Your health has to be your number one priority.
I just don’t know how to help him.
It is not your job to help him. In fact, you could be enabling him with your attempts to help him. His behaviour in some cases is absolutely unacceptable regardless and HE needs to get professional help or do the work himself to control himself. If he can't control his anger and be a safe person then he shouldn't be in relationship.
he’s smashed plate punch’s walls and tables and throws food pastiche water bottles but this helps him get his anger out.
This is a form of abuse. Intimidation. It is scary for anyone and it's completely unacceptable. This type of behaviour also often leads to physical abuse. It also doesn't necessarily help him “release” anger it can actually make the anger worse. It's also not realistic to break things and throw a fit when angry. Mindfulness, deep breathing and exercise is much more helpful. If his anger is this uncontrollable he needs therapy asap.
Shouting at you is also abuse. It isnt normal and anyone would feel unstable and upset by these behaviours. You cannot make yourself responsible for his actions. You need to set boundaries and if he continues to break these boundaries by shouting and breaking things then you need to leave. This is a very unhealthy relationship for anyone to be in.
It's obviously a big deal to you. The right thing to do would be not going to the party. You probably know that.
It sounds like some kind of food intolerance. I get that from too much lactose or histamin (beer, wine, avocados, tomatoes…). I think your best choice is an air filter and asking her if she is aware of any food allergies because yoy've noticed this
Your view of men is skewed, and it's hurting you. Men are not mindless sex addicts. They don't need sex, and they certainly don't need it with no feelings attached just because they're men. They're human, with a full spectrum of emotions. And as such they should be fully held accountable for their actions. He cheated on you, and is still cheating on you, and you're letting it slide because you aren't looking at him like a person. But he is a person, and he's a bad person who's incompatible with you, and probably anyone really, because he doesn't respect you or your boundaries. There are good men out there who don't cheat, and don't make you feel like you have to let them to keep them happy. Stand up for yourself and dump him, don't just let him walk all over you because you think that's how all men are.
If she didn't have your consent for her to go out on this date and do stuff then she is cheating. It really sounds like you two are not compatible, you should probably move on.
3 weeks and she’s dropping those demands???? R-U-N! You will be dealing with her demands forever and they will only get crazier.
You break up. She made a life decision that directly impacts you. It’s absolutely her right to decide that she’s not going to be sexually active anymore until she’s married, but that’s not the relationship you signed up for.
In fact, your only option is to break up bc if she does agree to have sex at this point, she’ll be drenched in guilt & you’ll feel like your coercing her. That’s terrible for both of you.