You are getting hung up on the fact he said he loves you. That's not true. He just wants an affair and to keep Mia there.
This was my partner's immediate reaction and I'm starting to see that.
As I said, we barely even interact from him to be in love with me. The entire conversation with him after the confession pretty much revolved around how Mia is “too safe/too perfect” option, he never had excitement in his dating or sex life (which was literally his own choice), and how he wants to have the type of love I have with my partner. His remarks that involved me directly were mainly sexual.
Yeah, I can definitely relate to this situation. It's super uncomfortable because they're creating a relationship with someone that's not you. Maybe they are just friends or maybe it's more than that. It's really hot to figure out. You have to decide what you can tolerate mentally. It's a truly difficult situation.
If you confront him about it he'll say they're just friends. Of course you want your significant other to have friends. It would be weird if they didn't. However choosing to spend time playing games & talking with someone (especially mentioning sex) is more than just friends. If you're uncomfortable with it, say something. If he loves you he should want you to feel comfortable, always.
Eh this is anecdotal, but the friend will look to go out with her and justify her own open marriage by pressuring the wife to join in. The friend is likely toxic and needs to be cut off. It should be the wife's decision though.
Dude why would you say that on here man? My post didn’t have anything to say about that. I just said “breastfed” and your dirty mind filled in the blanks
You don't know that until she opens up to you
You are getting hung up on the fact he said he loves you. That's not true. He just wants an affair and to keep Mia there.
This was my partner's immediate reaction and I'm starting to see that.
As I said, we barely even interact from him to be in love with me. The entire conversation with him after the confession pretty much revolved around how Mia is “too safe/too perfect” option, he never had excitement in his dating or sex life (which was literally his own choice), and how he wants to have the type of love I have with my partner. His remarks that involved me directly were mainly sexual.
r/flr don't be one of those guys
Yeah, I can definitely relate to this situation. It's super uncomfortable because they're creating a relationship with someone that's not you. Maybe they are just friends or maybe it's more than that. It's really hot to figure out. You have to decide what you can tolerate mentally. It's a truly difficult situation.
If you confront him about it he'll say they're just friends. Of course you want your significant other to have friends. It would be weird if they didn't. However choosing to spend time playing games & talking with someone (especially mentioning sex) is more than just friends. If you're uncomfortable with it, say something. If he loves you he should want you to feel comfortable, always.
Eh this is anecdotal, but the friend will look to go out with her and justify her own open marriage by pressuring the wife to join in. The friend is likely toxic and needs to be cut off. It should be the wife's decision though.
Dude why would you say that on here man? My post didn’t have anything to say about that. I just said “breastfed” and your dirty mind filled in the blanks
A solid decade of sinning sent me lol