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Jake, 27 y.o.
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Date: November 25, 2022
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If it gets boring, you're not in a relationship with your best friend, but just someone you are attracted to.
Communicate what you like. If she doesn't want to do it, don't force her. If her refusal is a deal breaker, end things amicably.
She's using you for sex. She's a dickhead. These are two separate things. Either accept her as a fuck buddy and forget her douchery – or move on and let her find a penis with an arts degree to play with.
Boundaries are things that you will and will not accept in a relationship
At this point you’ve made your self clear that you don’t like it and he keeps doing it so ask yourself why do you keep touching same hot stove when you know it’s going to burn you
I do have her socials. Have any ideas on what to say when I see her next to see how she reacts to?
This is what therapy, individual and couples therapy is for.
A likely profoundly unpopular opinion on here: but she is deeply selfish for revealing this information now. If she has been a loyal partner for the past six years, and had two transgressions when she was 19 with the guy she lost her virginity with…. She just shouldn’t have said anything.
Young people make terrible awful mistakes. In fact, they scientifically are demonstrated to be wired to make more mistakes. Is she a horrible deceitful misleading and amoral/immoral person? Possibly. But maybe she was just young and stupid.
The challenge of our current society is that is it demands total transparency and total intolerance for mistakes. This isn’t viable. She should have been silent and learned that something she did twice at 19 isn’t the defining flaw in her future marriage to you.
I know you must be deeply deeply hurt. And I definitely can understand that you wouldn’t be excited about marrying your partner now. So therapy for you would probably be helpful.
If you decide you still want to spend the rest of your life with her, then you’re going to need couple counselling before you move forward. Not because she cheated twice six years ago. But because she decided to reveal that fact to you just as you both started to discuss your future forever life.
I’m so sorry this has happened to you and your entire life has been thrown up in the air like this. It doesn’t have to be the end of the end of this relationship but it does have to be the start of a new chapter of it.
Thank you so much. I agree with everything you said – think the starting point is some therapy ??
What does he want you to do regarding him? Did you ask?