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Model from: us
Languages: en
Birth Date: 2000-08-05
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: October 25, 2022
In no healthy relationship should you have met her kids at this point. She is still looking for a new daddy for her kids.
This woman is not healthy and your life will be taking care of these kids and lots of drama.
You don't want this mess if you are a healthy person.
The messaging first is the red flag. It makes me wonder if he often engages with other people in a flirtatious way. It’s not like the profile was of a friend or acquaintance he hadn’t seen in a while. It was a stranger.
Did he message first to ask who they were? Was he flirty?
You say you don’t believe him. Has he done anything else to make you pause?
No chance this is real
“If” this doesn't work?
Babe. This isn't working.
Obviously I can't say that he is a narc, but he sure says things that narcs say. Why stay with someone who's this shitty to you?
I could use some advice. Should I just move on? Is there some way to explain to her why this still hurts me so bad?
For her this was 5 years ago, and also not that big a deal because she was the one saying and doing everything inappropriate. For you this happened yesterday, and you were the victim of her inappropriate behavior. She doesn't get the handwave away your feelings on the subject and she doesn't get to tell you when it's been too long to get upset about it.
As far as moving on, I don't see a way to do that without her acknowledging what she did was wrong without trying to spread the blame around and make this a “you looked at my phone so we're equally bad” situation. First of all, she ASKED you to look at her phone. Secondly, to the extent her privacy was invaded it was by her husband and shared with no one. Meanwhile your privacy was violated by being mocked and insulted by her and a crowd of her friends, all of whom I'm sure you've interacted with at some point and now you know they had been having these conversations about you. It's hurtful, and your wife needs to acknowledge that and own up to her bad behavior. If she keeps doubling down on “it's over, forget about it” or “well you looked at my phone so we're even” then I honestly can't see you getting past this. There's no way for you to come to terms with it if she refuses to admit she did anything wrong.
I don't see people I consider “distant friends” on a weekly basis, so I wonder if your language and behavior regarding your old relationship aren't at odds.
I agree with you.