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OIL IN BODY + STREAPTEASE/ this very hot secretary wants you to stick your cock in her/ COMES OUT!! HARD SNAP + 3 PHOTOS [121 tokens remaining]
Date: November 13, 2022
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I would start by having a talk with him about why you're upset with him rather than just break up automatically. I'm not justifying how he reacted, but if you told him you were fine right afterwards that's probably why his dumbass self didn't think to ask you any further questions or go check on you because you had already said you're fine. I know it's a stereotypical joke, but in reality please do not ever, with him or any future lover, say that you're fine and then get mad when he doesn't come over to deal with whatever is actually bothering you.
I would go explain to him what you explained up here, and tell him how it made you feel. Judge whether or not you should end the relationship based on his reaction. If he brushes off your concerns like you shouldn't be upset about this, or tries to make you feel like you're crazy for being upset about this, then yes and the relationship. If he acknowledges why you feel this way, and he is willing to work on it, give him some time. Either way I hope everything works out for you and I'm glad you're okay 🙂
Neither of us had perfect pasts, hers was just a lot worse.
something just bugs me a little that she was a hoe in the years before I met her
Why is she not allowed to enjoy sex? Would you consider yourself a hoe if you'd entered the relationship with a similar sexual past?
Your attitude here seems pretty crappy.
I'ma go with some cliche shit but I swear every time I try to buck it I end up miserable.
Don't look. Find hobbies with in person interaction, go about your life, meet people, make friends. The apps are ok only if you have no expectations. In my experience, 1 out of every 15 or so matches (over a long period of time) are worth anything more than a conversation. The apps are predatory and suck for everyone. They are good for passive exposure to like minded people so be honest in your profile..
But if you find yourself in a struggle to find a hobby, keep in mind there are entire worlds out there you don't even realize exist. My newest hobby is one of the best things I have done in my entire life and I wish I had found it earlier. But I'm glad I have it now. An amazing group of people and fun make life much better.
The funny thing is that I got into said hobby through a match on one of the shitty apps lol.
Good luck. I could give you the whole you are young, plenty of time shpiel but loneliness and need for validation dont care about that. You'll get it. Just never settle.
Even if you don’t like watching the game, showing an interest or at least trying to means a lot to Gamers. And then because they see you taking interest they tend to include you more. Most gamer guys have insecurities surrounding gaming and dating because a lot of woman still look down on it.
Yeah, casually cruel and flippant about it. His wife lost her dad ffs. Also, it makes sense why she'd leave money for the two other kids if OP's daughter met the man once and barely knew him at all. The son (wifes bio kid) actually had a relationship with his grandfather.
That aside, I agree with the other comments saying that the wife should put that into her retirement funds instead of the kids. Being a SAHM leaves you vulnerable if anything happens to the relationship.
the last paragraph…youre the sad and pathetic one i can assure you lmao “because of emotions”
The taking her phone and copying it all so you have it for future legal reasons is smart. Always good to have evidence in a divorce where it's literally one person pitted against the other.
Stalking and violence.. not so much.
These others are just stuck that it’s only used to treat opioid withdrawals and it’s not. It’s used for acute and chronic pain as well as anxiety and depression. SHOCKER it’s also used on animals in veterinary medicine. And this particular medicine “Buprenorphine” doesn’t come in pill form either.
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I think most reasonable people consider exclusive=monogamous sexually.
Just because he had a FWB situation where he wasn’t technically dating and only having sex doesn’t get him off the hook to me.
The only reason I could think it might be okay was if you two weren’t sleeping together. Even then, I think that would a dealbreaker for me.
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Promise rings aren't even real.
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So you just expected her to take pills that mess her hormones up instead because you baby be arsed to slap on a condom?
Having her tubes tied is the best scenario in this instance if you don't want to use condoms and she doesn't want to risk increased chances of cancer, weight gain, hair loss, headaches, period disturbances, acne, osteoporosis and a long list of other nasty issues. Just because you don't want to wear a fucking condom.
You sound selfish tbh.
Accusing you of being controlling for asking not to online in squalor is some audacity! Trash, food, and stuff like that are totally unacceptable. Clutter is a bit different… but it sounds like she is being lazy, and getting defensive when being called out on it. You have to be direct. Tell her calmly that you can no longer on-line this way and see if she is willing to have a conversation about compromising so that you are comfortable in your living space. Home shouldn't be a source of anxiety. If she deflects, gaslights, accuses you of being controlling, pouts etc… just redirect her and explain that you want to resolve this issue and need to have a conversation about it. If she is unwilling, you have your answer.
Its over anyway
This is reddit, they only care about the age gap.
He emphasised ‘connections’ etc. I worked for his family mainly though I suspected something suspicious was going on. He was more scary too. He had a look in his eye and to be honest I wouldn’t have been suprised if he tried to kill me. He would always flip at the other staff and shout even threw a knife one time. He just terrified me and I felt like I had to do what he said.
He can have issues over his dad AND still wishe he was in a relationship with his ex.
Do yourself a favour and point out to him when he says things that are hurtful to you. Then if he continues maybe you'll see it & not make excuses.
A person being hung up on their ex is never going to work in a relationship.
After I said I can't believe we lost that beautiful thing we had. He sent a message saying 'I am so conflicted in my mind. I know what we have is so amazing, I've been thinking about our memories and looking at our pictures and thinking about what I've done'. This also doesn't mean anything?
I am trying to find at least a small sign he wants me back ?
Ha! “This one time at band camp…”
You clearly don't want to be friends. You're waiting around for a possibility to date her. If you can't let go of wanting to date her, you can't be friends.
Take a break, get over your feelings, then come back to maybe being friends. You're becoming so dependent on this person that you clearly have a very hot time functioning on your own.
i said what i said cause you said “which is it.” it’s both. 2 things can be true at once
Yes, exactly, my mom's doctor says that achieving a BMI of 25 or less is really not realistic or sustainable for most people who have weighed 500 pounds. For one thing, my mom is still losing a bit of weight, granted quite slowly now. She also hasn't had any skin removal surgery yet and her doctor estimates that at least 30 pounds of her remaining weight is excess skin, not fat that can be lost through diet and exercise. And my mom hasn't decided yet about skin removal surgery because it is extremely painful with a long recovery time and she likes being busy and active. (My mom is extremely open with the details of her weight loss journey which is why I know all this; I have even accompanied her to a few doctor's appointments and therapy appointments over the years.)
My wife definitely has some food/body image issues. She isn't underweight but is extremely meticulous about healthy eating while I'm more of a moderation person myself.
Yes, I offered her to go which she also mentioned that she has second thoughts since she might have work on those days. And yes, planning to get married but it's not a priority right now since we are not yet financially stable.
Romantic attraction and sexual desire are two absolutely different things. Dry spells when it comes to sex happen, losing all romantic attraction is a lot more bothersome.
Sure, it could be depression, but honestly, long distance can also wear people down. It's just different when you can't really share your life and what you experience day to day with a partner; even if you see each other pretty often, it makes keeping the bond more difficult.
Is he open to therapy? If he is currently struggling in life, then therapy could help him in many ways, not just relationship-wise.
In the end, though, the decision is his'. A relationship means choosing your partner anew every single day and if he doesn't want to do that anymore – no matter for what reason – then that's it. The reason doesn't matter. But since he said that he doesn't want to break up, there might still be hope (in moderation, if he just keeps you around without really being in a relationship anymore, that would be horribly selfish of him). I do recommend therapy above all else – it seems he has to figure some things out, but there is only so much you can do to help him.
No, I don't think that would be ok. Nobody would be ok with that. Either you quit with the emotional affair or you do your girlfriend the favor of dumping her so she can be with someone who is actually going to remain faithful to get.
Shit or get off the fucking pot.
3-4 years!? Excellent I'm on track to maybe find a partner and do the sex again around that same time. Woohoo!
She is the kind of lady who leaves her kid in the car and it dies. She is not suited for being a parent. She can't even take care of the dog. She will leave the kid in a room and sleep through the crying for food. There is no way dude. You need to deal with this NOW
Get away from her. If she really cared about you, she never would have done that. And you don't know what else she might do.
I think you're a complete weirdo for having racism on your mind all the time. The rest of what you said was hilarious.
Mistakes are not done on purpose. Cheating is done on purpose
Where’s this man’s side of the story?
“Selfish” is the key word. That’s all there is to it.
I haven’t seen this anywhere, but you were 15 and he was 20 when you started dating? That within itself is very alarming and likely illegal depending where you online. He’s the only man you’ve likely really been with, don’t settle girlfriend. Get out now before it’s too late.
Idk if this is abusive but this is terrible communication in a scenario where your opinion matters. Dump them!
This story is all villains, no heroes.
It’s not you, it’s him. Pay no attention of how he acts. This could be a blessing because you almost settled for a future with this guy. He probably thought about being single and F-ing around for awhile in your relationship and now that the breakup happened, he posted a status to send out feelers for any interested females out there (huge turnoff if you ask me). If he ever unblocks you or reaches out, it means he’s had no luck and he wants to try again- he left so easily do NOT let him back in. Good riddance girl.
Sounds like he's the type who posts trashy stuff on social media
I am not. My GF chose to stay with me when I told her the first time around even though I expected her to leave me
Yeah nah mate. My ex did that crap to me, not trying to get me back or anything she was already moved on when we split (lol oops). I would not have taken her back after that treatment anyway.
Get on the waiting list now anyway, even if it feels like a pointless exercise. That way you're holding onto a spot and if things get worse you're already one foot on the ladder and hopefully you'll have a better chance of being bumped up for an emergency referral. Sending you good vibes. Trying to get mental health treatment on the NHS is such a joke.
Yes definitely tell P2 what's going on
I'm sorry love, but he's definitely shared your nudes. Just because you can't see them in that gc, doesn't mean he hasn't sent them elsewhere. He probably deleted the message ahead of time because you said he 'willingly' gave you has password. He planned for it
Your husband should not have a crush on another woman. Like others say he's obsessed in an unhealthy way. Seperate or divorce and make him get help.
I get so confused when men make rants about how bad they have it in the world that they specifically created to benefit themselves above all. I can't take them seriously because they obviously do not have the brain capacity to see that simple cause and effect. You say your boyfriend is a good person, but “good people” are not misogynists. The age difference wouldn't matter if he wasn't like this, but since he is… It almost looks like he wanted to find somebody younger so that they would be less likely to challenge him and his views. I am hoping deep down you know he is sexist and you needed some validation here to support those feelings. Your gut is right here. If he is not willing to listen and have a serious conversation about it, then what is the point of being with him? He is not going to change because he believes he is right and isn't even open for discussion. That is a lot of immaturity for a 32 year old man, on top of the misogyny. You can do better than him.
Sounds like she's tapped out. A lot of mothers do this to switch off their brain because they are unable to stop 'planning' dinner menus , school pick ups . playdates etc Its a way of dissasociating from their own life. Most mothers are a bit depressed to be honest, kids are so draining.
Can you help her to re-connect with old friends, that might help? A trip away with no kids would be good also.
Asking about her long term personal goals might provoke her to look at her life.
My hubs and I recently had a silly chat about what we'd do /buy if we won the lottery and we both realised several of the things we'd chose were well within our reach right now.
As for conversation try to find an overlap of interests in her world..
If she interested in people then “philosophy ' could be the overlapping subject you could try engageing with. Try to relate it to the celebrities she follows but make the conversation deeper as to their behaviors and the effects of media. Ask HER opinion don't make it a lecure
If she likes fashion & you like self improvement you could ask about capsule wardrobes ( 333 etc & the ethics of fast fashion Vs sustainable brands. Also are high status handbags actually a sound business investment.? Every interest however purile on the surface has a deeper level if you look for it.
I get so confused when men make rants about how bad they have it in the world that they specifically created to benefit themselves above all. I can't take them seriously because they obviously do not have the brain capacity to see that simple cause and effect. You say your boyfriend is a good person, but “good people” are not misogynists. The age difference wouldn't matter if he wasn't like this, but since he is… It almost looks like he wanted to find somebody younger so that they would be less likely to challenge him and his views. I am hoping deep down you know he is sexist and you needed some validation here to support those feelings. Your gut is right here. If he is not willing to listen and have a serious conversation about it, then what is the point of being with him? He is not going to change because he believes he is right and isn't even open for discussion. That is a lot of immaturity for a 32 year old man, on top of the misogyny. You can do better than him.
Because they were drunk and reminiscing in the moment.
It's not a crazy stretch to imagine she felt guilty in the moment because they were sharing an intimate anniversary with her husband.
Should she have maybe just kept it to herself? Yeah. It was insensitive and accomplished nothing except maybe make her feel a little better in the moment. But this is a talk it out and reaffirm each other's love kinda problem.
You're better off moving on but before you get into another relationship you really need to examine the idea of wanting to “save” someone, especially in the context of a romantic relationship. That's not a good thing to want and you should really try to move away from that or else you'll wind up in another bad situation.
“First choice” doesn't mean anything. She never went out with the guy, who knows, she might have ended up hating him. Extroverted “life of the party” types can be total narcissist assholes who are terrible to date. I assume you had girlfriends before her? Does that mean she wasn't your “first choice”? Sure she shouldn't have said anything to you, but the whole thing is really nonsense. You're both giving it way too much significance.
Dude messaged you for over a year without you responding? That's not an endearing story, no matter the ending
You may not have been her first choice at the beginning, but you are now.
It sounds like performance anxiety, and it can happen to any guy at any age. It really sucks because once it happens it gets in your head, which creates more anxiety… creating a vicious cycle of doubt, anxiety, and lack of performance.
They only way to break the cycle that I've found is to be totally relaxed and to have “unplanned” sex, which will leave you no time to think about it. Having your partner apply the condom can help too.
Thanks for your extensive description. Not all of the points apply, but some do. I'll talk with my therapist about it. Thank you.
Yeah tbh it’s the fact he lied tbh and didn’t straight out just tell me even after I found the top, had he been straight from the start I think I would be feeling very different to now
Obviously I can’t be 100%, but I looked through her app history & it was just conversation. She is literally always with me, so I don’t even see how she’d have time for that. Like she goes home to go to work, to come back to my house lol
Just dump her.. you both don’t have trust in the relationship and each other, this is the foundation for an good relationship and this is just hurting each other. It shouldn’t be this hot to be in a relationship.
Man that sucks. Alright yeah thanks for the advice. Online and learn.
Regardless of sex/gender, you train people on how to treat you and what you’re willing to accept or not accept.
If you feel like you’re not getting fair treatment, voice your concerns to him in a logical, non-emotional manner. It may help, it may not, but you’re in control of staying in the relationship or leaving if it’s not what you want the situation to be.
How’s the SHIB investment going?