That’s the whole thing, isn’t it? She can’t figure out what she wants out of life, so she just listens to everyone around her. OP dumping her is going to be the best thing that ever happened to her, in the long run.
Maybe you should not be in a sexual relationship until you are in a better place with your trauma. I would venture to say that oral sex is a part of most healthy sexual relationships. Sounds like your BF is in this camp. Sexual compatibility is a big part of a relationship. You don’t seem to be compatible.
She agreed to have the photos taken, she’s just as guilty as the friend. She thought it’d be a good idea to take hot pictures of herself in front of his friend.
He should divorce her, and cut all communications with them if they think that this is acceptable at all.
This 100% my husband and I took years to finally say exactly what we liked and what felt best and let me tell you, we were both missing out lol ?
That’s the whole thing, isn’t it? She can’t figure out what she wants out of life, so she just listens to everyone around her. OP dumping her is going to be the best thing that ever happened to her, in the long run.
Maybe you should not be in a sexual relationship until you are in a better place with your trauma. I would venture to say that oral sex is a part of most healthy sexual relationships. Sounds like your BF is in this camp. Sexual compatibility is a big part of a relationship. You don’t seem to be compatible.
“Communicate.”
She agreed to have the photos taken, she’s just as guilty as the friend. She thought it’d be a good idea to take hot pictures of herself in front of his friend.
He should divorce her, and cut all communications with them if they think that this is acceptable at all.