This is a completely insensitive and dickheaded response, nice work.
She has TRAUMA FROM A PAST RELATIONSHIP. Literally no one is saying she blames him or wishes he didn't do it. 24 hours ago she say him commit an incredibly violent act. It doesn't matter the reason for it, it brought up a lot of completely legitimate past trauma and fear seeing him in that violent state.
Her concern IS NOT that he beat the shit out of burglars. Watching him be violent brought up her past trauma. It's like people who have a phobia of mice. They know logically that the mice can't hurt them, but they have an irrational fear that is out of their control.
Your response is completely lacking tact and compassion. If I was this girl's friend and knew her past and saw this message from her boyfriend, I would immediately tell her to cut him off and never speak to him again, because he is clearly incapable of empathy.
Incredibly shitty take. Try treating women like humans with feelings and try again.
Sometimes it’s best not to bring another being to this world, especially if parents aren’t both on same page. I’d whatever you do start birth control afterwards asap. I’m female and my opinion has always been: unless you plan on having the kid don’t tell him unless what your looking for is hurting the guy; he can’t do anything except hope you change your mind. There are women whose partner insist on an abortion even when she wants to have. OP you’re lucky to have a supportive bf
Don't even think of doing that. Just sit and watch the space.
This is a completely insensitive and dickheaded response, nice work.
She has TRAUMA FROM A PAST RELATIONSHIP. Literally no one is saying she blames him or wishes he didn't do it. 24 hours ago she say him commit an incredibly violent act. It doesn't matter the reason for it, it brought up a lot of completely legitimate past trauma and fear seeing him in that violent state.
Her concern IS NOT that he beat the shit out of burglars. Watching him be violent brought up her past trauma. It's like people who have a phobia of mice. They know logically that the mice can't hurt them, but they have an irrational fear that is out of their control.
Your response is completely lacking tact and compassion. If I was this girl's friend and knew her past and saw this message from her boyfriend, I would immediately tell her to cut him off and never speak to him again, because he is clearly incapable of empathy.
Incredibly shitty take. Try treating women like humans with feelings and try again.
Yeah saw that after I posted
yeah, i cant understand how she cannot grasp this.
Sometimes it’s best not to bring another being to this world, especially if parents aren’t both on same page. I’d whatever you do start birth control afterwards asap. I’m female and my opinion has always been: unless you plan on having the kid don’t tell him unless what your looking for is hurting the guy; he can’t do anything except hope you change your mind. There are women whose partner insist on an abortion even when she wants to have. OP you’re lucky to have a supportive bf
Ew ew ew ewwwwww. He is a loser