0 views
isabella-angell chat
Date: October 26, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
isabella-angell chat
You do realize they were 16 at the time right? A high school relationship that was hot and cold, and while they were broken up she hooked up with another boy at the school. Now I get it, OP is mad that nobody told him. But frankly everyone was young and doing dumb teenager things.
In my opinion he has a right to be upset that he was the last to know… but throwing away a marriage over it? Seems a huge overreaction.
Omg I'm so sorry what an absolute peice of shit, how he can casually say its just sex its not cheating? So if you done it, it's just sex not cheating, then to beat you so bad, this guy is unhinged, block his number and ask your mum and who ever you with to have a retraining order to I wouldn't put it past him. I'm glad your safe, what a Psycho.
I would find out why he’s feeling this way before you decide he’s right or wrong. If he refuses to talk about it, he can’t expect you to read his mind.
Kids are one area where compromise isn't possible. One (or both) of you will end up regretting the decision. If you want kids and he doesn't, be kind and end it so you can each find the right one. Love is not enough.
This is how you realize it's an obviously fake story
Your boyfriend sounds like a dick. Your father is family and this is as simple as it gets. Tell the bf to unwad his panties and buck the fuck up. I'll bet your dad is lonely. Give him some love. Screw people who wanna get in the way of that. It's probably ultimatum time, chief.
Then just say so, gosh, way to bury the lede.
You don't want to be with you wife, you're a momma's girl (always been, given you've been in contact despite her basically disapproving your wife) and don't have cash for living alone so you see no issues with kissing up a homophobe's ass and need to run back to mommy's.
Easy.
Divorce your wife, go back to momma, save money.
I have no idea if I’ll find better than this. I’ve been in 3 relationships before this and I’ve either been sexually assaulted or cheated on
I think y’all both need to apologize. It sounds like his family was going thru a lot and u felt it was ok to give him attitude on the day of his grandfather funeral because of your lack of sleep. He was wrong but so were you. I just hope you can see your wrong in this and not put it all on him when the stresses of his family being gone and in the hospital was clearly a lot for him.
How would you then react if gf also celebrates with them? (As future stepmom)
Ohhh thank you! I'll try to boost my confidence
People who do what they say and say what they do are SO important in society
that they are given a special label: “Integrity”. This label cannot be given to oneself
by themselves. It can only be bestowed by individuals who watch your behavior.
So…the question is really whether or not you have “Integrity.”
One wants me to leave, another understands and loves him but no longer wants to associate with him because she doesn’t think he’s as healed as he needs to be
okay, thank you!
Do you tell all your friends you love them, or just your ex?
No? Then you don’t mean it in a friendship sort of way. That’s a rationalization for a behavior you recognize isn’t…..consistent with reality.
If wouldn’t be comfortable with someone still telling their ex they loved each other. It suggests that there is more than friendship still there and investing trust is risky.
Which was a mistake on my part and I do see that now. I don't want her to be different or dull her shine. I just got overwhelmed and now I can't get back to where we were.
Your “boyfriend” may have given him the go ahead. 24 & 16 is absolutely disgusting!
I also don't want her trying to use the range top
This is foolish because anything put in the oven has to be lifted out. The stove is safer.
You don’t go on this trip with your ex if you have any respect whatsoever for your bf…. No one with half a brain would do what you’re doing.
You need to do your own thing. Go to school be a nurse. Try a long distance relationship maybe or take a break.
Not much you can do at this point. Actions have consequences.
In a sense, yes, she's controlling. But I think this is due to the fact that we both have set up boundaries for each other and rules. As for being upfront, I am aware that I was wrong and I'm conscious about that. Not being clear from the start was bad from me, but it was because I knew she wouldn't react well to it, and I didn't think of it as a big deal at the time.
Look at post history this person isn't real
Hello, thanks for answering. You mentioned some points that I have discussed with my parents and that is that for some reason it is very difficult for me to believe that my boyfriend could have “bad intentions”. He is always very nice to me and everyone and has been my best friend since I was 16 years old. I use the word confinement but I wanted to refer to the lockdown during the pandemic, I apologize for the mistake. It's a bit unreal for me to see what my relationship has become. I feel like I'm waking up from a very long sleep and I'm paying attention to everything I didn't do before. Again thanks for your reply. Seeing that my parents aren't the only ones who think this way helps a lot.
I just saw your edit. Thank you for clarifying a bit.
I don’t consider myself to have played games with him. It was more like I was stuck and didn’t know what I was doing, if that makes sense. Not to excuse my behavior—I wish so much that I’d done better. But just to explain it.
I’m sure that on his end it could’ve been experienced differently.
Regardless, I’m definitely taking the apology thing to heart. Your words are appreciated more than you know. ?
Calm down.
.
You’re proposing a list-off? Lol
“I was thinking maybe next time we have sex or whenever we have sex, you can eat me out. What do you think”
Shoe size has nothing to do with personality. And you should probably ask yourself how you would feel if someone rejected you for something so superficial.
If you can't get over the fact that she has weird feet you might want to ask yourself how you would feel about other things. Can you look at another person and not judge them without makeup, with C-Section scars, with other issues that might arise because beauty is a fleeting thing.
You need to get your priorities straight before deciding to take another persons emotions into your hands like that.
Literally. It's one thing to cheat and lie. That's already enough for me to want a divorce. It's ANOTHER to make a WHOLE story about how she was raped. That's actually fucking disgusting. Imagine framing a story about something that's so incredibly traumatizing just to make an excuse for YOU doing something that traumatizes people.
As someone that has been SA'd (not raped tho) before, this woman is absolutely repulsive, and it shows the lengths that she'll go to to save her own ass. OP should really pay attention to just how much this shows about his wife's character.
You were assaulted. Report the business. Charge back the card.
Talk to police. Tell your gf what happened after you have a police report so you can show you're serious.
DNA Test?
Fucking hell. Thanks for your comment and sharing this with your partner. I was genuinely at a loss but feel more… sure now?
I’ve thought about this myself, however return flights alone are generally 1-2 thousand and so I’m not sure if it’d be worth the risk if I then end up still wanting to go there on the visa.
This is ridiculous to squabble over
OP gave us further information that his wife gave permission for them to go, but warning that they “wouldn’t have fun”. And when they did, this was when she drew the line about them not going.
You didn't get coddled so you left? You're an embarrassment! You don't deserve her time. And the fact that you only want reassurance is pathetic. Grow the fuck up and accept that YOU are the fucked up one here.
Yes i know, that are the consequences…
I didn't appreciate her… I know, and now I see what a good person she is… I wan't to change… I wanna show it her, that im able too. Just a 2nd chance
Thanks, I agree, and it isn’t love.
We are already doing therapy, but even if that somehow works which at this point I don’t see happening, I think things that are fundamentally who he is like this family situation will be too much.
I mostly wanted to know if I was expecting something unreasonable but the more I think about it and think back on all the other times he hasn’t treated my family half as good as they treat him or I treat his family (even though they don’t treat me as well), the more I realize the problem is larger than his being rude about my niece and nephew.
i got a service that finds a job suitable for my needs, but where i live! it would be nude to find someplace since its a high stress/rat race type city