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Date: February 14, 2023
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Your husband is in the closet. It’s not you
How old is your father? Or any mentor? How would you see them if they were to date a 18yo?
is de pession a variant of en passant?
What city is this? Asking for a friend
Time limit is important to prevent you from being stuck in a limbo.
Is the other girl interested in sex? No good can come of this, and even if he doesn’t go ahead with it because you don’t want it. You can’t unsigned a bell. He told you what he wants, chances are he will just cheat any way
Man, anybody who's been burned like you have would be anxious about this. The last times you trusted people, they ruined that trust. Your lizard brain doesn't want any more of that shit – and who could blame it? I am so fucking sorry. Damn.
Try to remember that she's not them, if you can. She's a different person.
Therapy's not a bad idea, but tbh part of the way out of this is going to be taking a leap of faith. And letting her actually prove that she can be trusted.
It's definitely naked to balance staying safe in this situation with not being controlling. It's good that you're aware that's no bueno.
What if you two agreed on a ground rule that wherever she is, no matter what's going on, she picks up the phone ASAP if/when you video call?
Don't call her excessively of course, but at least then, if you're really spiraling…you can have a way to reassure yourself that she really is just chilling with friends.
Tbh it might be worth looking into PTSD resources. Not necessarily because you have PTSD itself, but you're definitely dealing with stress from trauma you've gone through. Post-traumatic stress. That can manifest as anything from anger attacks that're really about fear, or feeling like the past's about to repeat.
It's not proportionate, yeah, but that doesn't mean it's completely irrational. That lizard brain is just trying to keep you safe, and it's experienced where it thinks that pattern goes.
Gotta ground yourself in the fact that this is a different time, with a different person, and vastly unlikely to have the same outcome.
Easier said than done, but still.
She knows what you've been through, right? It'd be worth apologizing for lashing out, and making sure she knows what you're really just scared of losing her, even though you also know this isn't a good road to go down, and want to be able to trust again.