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my god…….
That doesn't sound like sexual assault, and she sounds like a certifiable nut job. She's trying to get your attention, don't give it to her.
Is there any reason you can't just stop making dinner every day? Like, what is going to happen if you tell him “I am not making dinner on Tuesdays and Thursdays. I'm going out. You'll have to figure something out. “
He just says he’s not in the mood and when I try and ask what’s going on or what’s making him not feel in the mood compared to 3 months ago he just gets angry and says he doesn’t know and that I shouldn’t just care about sex. That’s not the case but he’s not a very loving or cuddly individual so sex has always been how we share emotional intimacy.
Haha even so at least their heart is in the right place.
This is it. More projection than your local cinema.
Chances are she also met with him when she got all dolled up, but changed her MO when you commented on her clothes. She's meeting this guy on the regular for more than just talk.
Would it be insulting to be accused of cheating? Yes.
Are words easy to misinterpret and take a variety of different ways? Yes.
Is it possible that what you say, is not what she heard? Yes.
Don't take her defensive reaction as something to be concerned about. Anyone is going to be defensive if they're accused. I know you didn't accuse her here, but what she heard was a subtle imply of cheating.
Talk to her.
This sounds like a miscommunication.
Are you the one making the mess? Maybe just clean up after at least just yourself since you are sitting at home all day or get a job so you're not home all day to make a mess. If you start working you won't feel like making elaborate dinners and not cleaning the dishes. You don't mention that you're a at home mom or anything so it sounds like you have nothing but free time and don't have a job. In your case it's not unreasonable to expect your contribution to be keeping the house clean while he is working his ass of to support you. I could see why he would grow to resent you if you were sitting on ass all day bringing nothing to the relationship other then???? It's sweet that you like to cook but let's be honest if he wasn't supporting you he would probably just use the money he spends on you to eat out. He wouldn't have to deal with a messy house. Learn to clean dishes as you go I am a single mother to a baby and a 12yr old and even I can do that. I would break up with someone who sat on their ass all day for me to support and contributed absolutely nothing
12 weeks is near the end of 1st trimester Not 3rd. But the 3rd month, near 4.
Oh I would, your behaviour is straight up trashy.
She is not your responsibility, full stop. The guilt-tripping is really unhealthy, even if you guys are close. I know it’s a bit of a cliche, but have you looked into therapy to deal with your guilt?
Well, your feelings have to do with your own sensibilities and nothing to do with God. So time to move on. God doesn't always want the same things for your life as you do, and it's incredibly possible that he doesn't want you and her to ever interact again. Stop questioning it.
You make sacrifices. If your heart not in it , you make trades . Yiu tell her kids can be Muslim and I act around your parents. You just go with it. Don’t eat pork and she looks the other way. God knows peoples heart in every religion. If she likes you she will go with it. It’s about the kids anyways so comprise on both side
This is the advice. Some people will continue to sleep with others as to not have to be caught with feelings first. It gives them a safety blanket if things don’t work out and they can tell themselves they weren’t interested in the person anyway. It’s an ego thing for some.
Leave the douche and let him do go to town on himself. No sense for you to take a backseat because of his selfishness. Find someone who values you more
Look, no matter what, this is NOT the guy's fault. Even if she was assaulted, he doesn't know that.
Her reaction is absurd. Normally cheaters lie or make excuses or deny the tests, they don't completely shut down and do nothing but cry for months without defending themselves.
The reason I suggested OP look into this from this perspective isn't to excuse the mom for what happened recently, it's because if she is in fact traumatized, OP should take a very different approach to helping her be functional enough to not be a burden. If this is a woman bemoaning her fuckup, the conversation needs to be about owning up to her mistakes and sucking it up and not wallowing. If this is a woman processing a 20 year old assault, that approach will make things worse for OP.
You are clearly in over your head. SPEAK TO AN ATTORNEY.
Get evidence and file for divorce.
Don't stay with a cheat. Send the photos to her parents and her boss if you want to blow up her world.
Well yes that would be your first thought – but cheating (if he is) would simply be a symptom. The disease is him having no moral compass. THAT is the problem.
right…i see what you're saying. im not trying to drag him back in, but i genuinely (on almost a “looking out for you” level) want him to know he's not like…shooting blanks.
it takes two to tango and i dont see why i should have gone through a miscarriage (while we were together, nearly) all alone. the breakup was less than a week ago.
This 100% sounds like your husband and the woman were cheating, and now they're breaking up. He's hiding it and she's helping him because she realized that being with a married man will eventually cause a ton of drama
You should discuss with him about mindfulness and if he feels present. It could be something like ADHD, where he has many thoughts going on, or gets very distracted, so he can't really focus on being present and the consequences of things like starting the dishwasher now, instead of later.
He could also simply not be a considerate person to those around him. Does this seem to extend beyond you and the home?
There are some things you can get people to change, but it requires them to acknowledge the issue and desire to change. If he's not really considerate of you, that may not be possible, and you may have to make a decision to either settle or move on.