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Yeah…was gonna say this but glad you commented. He should ask her to explain her reservations. Her reaction was a little extreme given the interactions they’d had
Almost a year? And you're engaged already?
This is awesome. You identified your weakness and are challenging yourself to work on it. You are working on yourself and the results are showing.
If you have feelings for her, it's time to take her out on a date, outside of your house.
If you confirm your feelings, let her know and keep progressing things.
I'm happy for you, best of luck!
At first he was mad he went through his phone because we dont ever do that, but he quickly changed his tune and told me he doesn’t blame me for doing it. He was hiding something and I found out what it was. He said he was embarrassed about it and apparently “didnt know how to bring it up”.
It’s what I should’ve done a long time ago… but I seriously do not know how to cut the cord w this man. He’s coming to visit me on summer. I can’t even imagine to what degree am I deep in his shit or how well he has managed to manipulate me.
you need to drop them both and move on. you shouldn't even be thinking about marriage until you're 30.
I fell in love with someone in high school and when she went off to college the relationship ended. I felt awful and unlovable for a long time. So I speak from experience: Don’t put yourself through that. First loves are great and powerful and special. But they come to an end almost always. Especially when you are at different colleges. Take care of yourself and know that you will be OK even if this relationship comes to a close.
I mean… you're not wrong.
I can tell you that men are NOT just friends with women they DO find attractive. As for women they aren't attracted to? Maybe..
You're right. He might do even worst. That's why the best decision she make is to leave him.
Why would u be lost over someone who's so insecure that you can't do what YOU want with YOUR body. Sounds to me like Mr mahn was insecure af and controlling because of it.
If you have to regulate what a woman does with their life, you don't deserve to have a woman.
You do what fits your life, my point was after being with someone that long you may feel different and at least try to help them over come their issues they have to online with that’s not their fault, but I get after a while it may not be a good fit for one or both parties and you need or want to leave. My point is being with someone that long if you haven’t before will change your perspective in the pursuit if that’s the first big instance to date or one of few, you probably wouldn’t give up trying at the very least just yet. If you do, that’s your decision and if the other person or you are going to be further toxic in the situation then by all means leave and do what’s best for you, you’re right no one really will understand the relationship unless you are one of the only two people in it and at the end of the day it’s no one business but that
As someone who has a friend in an abusive relationship (the secown one since I've known her and second time I'm there for her)….I've offered her help, a place to stay, ways to get out, resources etc. She decides to stay. Many people in abusive relationships stay despite people telling them to get out and offering help but more often than not it falls on deaf ears. And maybe you've given your parents the impression that you want to stay. If you really want to leave ASK them for help. Don't blame them for your unhappiness. Your BF is the problem here.
You're not too ugly for a relationship. Looks only last so long in a lifetime anyway. Have confidence in yourself, look for people with the same interests. I never thought that I would end up with anybody and then the best man I could ever ask for fell into my lap. I have body image issues, I'm fat, I'm short, my hair is thinning (and I'm a woman), and I'm 29. I'm not what you would probably call conventionally attractive either. People used to ask me out on dates because they lost bets or it was as a joke.
Work on yourself, learn to feel better about you, because that confident glow is what drags people in. Start being unapologetically you and people will show up.
It doesn't say 100% emotional affair, it says it is 100% (completely) an emotional affair. What reading comprehension class did you fail?
Damn, sorry to hear that. I actually did hit my fiancé in the face while having a nightmare. Not especially nude I think but I still feel bad about it.
Why is it a problem he cried?
He sounds like a turd
I 100% believe that if I said okay my bf and I would have been married the day we met
I'm very happy to know that though he might be crazy, it's atleast common with military men (??) HAHAHA
Dude he was really not at all supportive of you.. when your grandma died. I'm sorry that your grandma died. He should be too, and he should be the one on your team, making things easier for you and your family, not the other way round.
Well, you could write your own will, and I’m assuming that you don’t have children since you didn’t mention any, and leave everything in your will to charity. If she says something about it, well, she would be a bit hypocritical and you wouldn’t be in the wrong
I super hate gyms, but that certainly might be something to try! Thank you.
You are much too dependant on him. He wanted to leave and you begging him to stay is a no. You should go to therapy for this asap. in this frame of mind you will accept anything from him. even though he promises you he’ll stop he won’t. He has to go for therapy for anger management if not this will be the kind of life you’ll have. How toxic will it be if you have children and they have to go through this.
He doesn’t accept you. He doesn’t see you good enough for him and his family.
I am used to being with the person I’m dating on NYE so I made an assumption that we would by default. (Especially because we’re typically together on Saturdays anyway)
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If you willingly subject yourself to this then you're instrumental in your own abuse.
Why would you need to call out of a job for an std test? Just call the docs and book it ASAP.
I also don't get the idea of texting him apologising either if you didn't know you were having unprotected sex?
Suppose the man was also drunk, it’s still rape? That’s never made sense to me even remotely. I doubt she herself feels taken advantage of since she still hangs out with the guy.
Ok. Understood. But can you answer me?
What exactly is the complication?
space is was diff than a break or separation. break mean they have freedom to do what they want. space is you two just doing your own thing for a min.
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He was 26 dating a 17 year old. He cheats on you, multiple times. With your friend even. Gaslights you by saying he wants to marry you. There are so many red flags here. RUN.
OP, you're going to do what you're going to do and I get the sense that nothing we post will change that. But let me put down a summary of a few things.
None of us on this sub know you or your girlfriend. We don't know your specific circumstances. What we do know is what we have seen on this sub, on others and in real life. And what we find is that there is often a lot of similarities between things – patterns of behaviour and so on. And it's those we refer to when we are giving “advice” on here. Even spending 6 months on here will mean you read posts and are sure you've seen them before as there are so many similarities.
So let's look at your situation.
A while back your girlfriend was going on a work trip and she told you she would get a taxi to the airport. You discovered that, in fact, she was being picked up by a guy and she lied to you because she didn't want you to get upset. Why did she not get a taxi? Why didn't you take her? Why did she think you would be upset? Was the guy also going on this trip? Does he online local so that it's easy for him to pick her up? Some time later you went on a business trip yourself. While you were away, the same guy came around your house and your girlfriend didn't tell you. You only discovered this when he stole some of your documents and started harassing you about it. Why didn't she tell you? Why would a innocent guy decide to harass someone else? Most recently, your girlfriend told you she was going to be in London to see a show with a friend and you discovered she actually spent the night in a hotel just 3 miles from your house. When you challenged her she explained it was for her mental health. Why couldn't she tell you her plans up front? Why lie to you? What evidence did she show you that she was there alone? Now she will be moving out into her own place
I think anyone doing an objective analysis of the above would say that there is something fishy about the whole thing. And we realise that you don't want to see it because you know her (etc) but we really have seen this sort of thing before. And yes, sometimes it turns out that what seemed to be 99% certain turns out to be completely wrong (e.g. “omg, that girl was his daughter!” or “he was arranging a surprise party for me!”) but those occasions are rare. If you're in a relationship you always want to see the best but that does mean you sometimes miss the obvious.
For example, a girl at my workplace experienced the following with her boyfriend.
He came home smelling of perfume Excuse: the lady next to him on the train home was spraying perfume on herself and some must have got on him She went shopping at the weekend and came home to find his research assistant leaving the house Excuse: She came round to drop off some papers and they got talking She found a lingerie receipt from Agent Provocateur in his laundry Excuse: he bought it for her but left it on the train and was too embarrassed to say anything She saw an old hotel booking confirmation notification on the ipad Excuse: that was going to be for a romantic getaway but it coincided with that work emergency that meant he had to stay at the office overnight
Aaaand we all know what was really going on – right? And who with.
So look, don't take our comments the wrong way – we're just objectively looking at what you've said, cutting out the emotional track (that you have) and relating it to things we have seen before.
This is on her. You did right by your sister. The alternative would be leaving her to wallow in filth. Your GF needs to grow up.
Bizarre that your inability to respond directly to a specific question indicates any deficiency other than your own.
And ultimately resorting to ad hominem attacks?
“You are the embodiment of everything wrong with the internet.”
There are 365 days in a year. Why would you choose his birthday when you could wait a couple days and then serve hom the papers?
You're dating a guy who is 13 years older than you. I don't know if this is naive, gullible, or just plain stupidity. You never questioned why he needed to date someone who was a newborn when he was in puberty?
Lmao leave him. He is abusing you by withholding affection and disrespecting your bodily autonomy. He wants to baby trap you – if you get pregnant from this guy, he will guilt trip you into keeping the baby and getting married. You are royally fucked if you let it get there.
Holy cow the sheer ignorance is enough to make me insane. Grow a damn spine and run away, fast
Yeah, that's why you don't get merried so soon!
What he wants to be and what he is are two different things. Maybe one day, with work he can learn to grow, but you can't make a relationship on what someone might be. He isn't that person. It sucks but if he wants to be a better person, he shouldn't need you as the reason to do it.
Imagine wasting 2 years on a person just to have them offhandedly tell you they don't see enough of a future with you to at least discus buying a home. yikes
I'm not asking because I want to know – I'm asking because YOU need to know.
For the record, I'm almost 60 and I'm kicking ass. Can't speak for your mom but I imagine she's not ancient and crippled with age.
I think they'd be supportive of us doing what we want – for this reason I don't wish to take advantage of their good nature.
What? They would want you to online your life as you see fit and from that you conclude…you shouldn't? Because…that's what they would want for you? You would be taking advantage of nothing. Damn dude. Your family wants you happy.
I can't imagine it having opportunities in the same league as London.
Well I guess that's something you need to look into. Are the opportunities good enough? Relative to the quality of life? These are thing you have to look up and weigh with your wife – not me.
But from the above – and I'm just guessing here – you are reaching for any excuse to not go. Because you just don't wanna.
If that's the case, own it. Say you don't want to. If you really are of two minds, do the homework with your partner and sort it out.
Is it a big decision? Yes. Is it rocket surgery? No. Besides if you go for X years, you give it a sincere effort (and I mean SINCERE effort), and you want to go back? Go back. Planes fly round trip every day.
His got issues. Me, my sister, and my brother all slept in a bed together until I was 7, she was 10, and I think he was 9? He had his own room but we got so used to it as little toddlers and me and my sister were sharing a queen bed anyways ?
All good! Not the only person who was confused by the wording.
My apologises.
Exactly! My dad loves doing model railroading, he loves the hobby, he builds the buildings, he paints them, does everything custom, does it interest my mom at all? Lol no. However, she takes an interest in it, she shows my dad news articles, shows him about conventions that are coming up, shows him things that look interesting that he might like.
That’s totally different from telling someone that you don’t wanna hear about it at all, because you may not have an interest, but also, if it’s a trigger, you need to get over it. You need to learn how to get over it. Because if you’re basically muting your partners interest because it impacts you, then there’s an issue. It’s not like my interest is going on porn websites, it’s a general interest which has a lot of people into it, as a hobby.
Unless it really disturbs you or you've got children witnessing this, there's really no issue here.
She knows what she's doing and she's ok with it. Avert your eyes, close your blinds or take the occasional sneaky glance in passing if you want but no need to say or do anything.
“Out of control”? Lol, what’s next, “She’s showing signs of hysteria?” There aren’t even any specifics here besides deleting Instagram pics.
I can’t tell if you’re serious but if you are, would you mind elaborating?
This would be an instant deal breaker for me. I wouldn't even consider moving forward with this relationship. Your friends saying this isn't a big deal are either dumb or naive. I could never trust this girl 100% ever again. If you could lie to me before, what's to stop you from doing it again? Nope. Loyalty and trust are necessary to have a healthy relationship. It doesn't matter if it was early on in the relationship and you've been together for 6 years now. In some ways that makes it worse in my opinion, you lied to me for 6 years?! Hell no. Her actions were completely selfish, first the cheating and then not confessing it right away because she “couldn't bear to lose you” or whatever. If she really didn't wanna lose you, she shouldn't have fucking cheated. ?
They were flirting with each other. No doubt. Are they having an affair? You need to dig.
In some families, they will simply follow the biggest bully. Be funnier by burning the other person?
Forget it. They are no longer desirable.
It’s toxic yes, but it works to get what you want: your bully out of the family.
If he loses, he may end up isolated from a family that will continue to insist on his presence while they literally watch his high school bully bully him again.
Do not go back. Seriously.
The red flags are there. The pain is there, and it will just keep coming up.
Just don’t. Move on, find someone better.
Yeah it seems like the bfs behaviour is escalating. Porn isn't enough, sexting isn't enough, he now needs to harass women and send unsolicited dick pics. I'm sure it won't be long until he starts doing things in person – peeping, flashing, stalking etc.
OP needs to leave asap before she's pulled too far into his shit.
I’m just going to throw it out there that if your bf lost his nearly 7 figure job and was investigated and found in breach of tax laws, he was likely “antisocial” before the rest of your concerns started, it’s just the 7 figure salary paid for some nice rose tinted specs