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Indiancherry90 Public Chat Channel
Date: October 26, 2022
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Indiancherry90 Public Chat Channel
In your last post, she was clearly doing the right thing and trying to communicate with you and how to fix this, because stuff like this does happen. You, however, seemed to decide to go nuclear and be like “go ahead and see how you really like being with him” instead of acting like an adult and actually work on this maturely
1) Your immature oh you don't want me to have one more so I order one more is poison to a relationship. You need to work on that or you are just waiting to get divorced. There is no room for petty in a good relationship.
2) Its his family and he doesn't like them for some reason. He had enough and wanted/needed to leave and instead of supporting him you tried to force him to stay longer.
You are the asshole here.
I mean, that just sounds like falling in love.
Oh wow, hearing a deep, booming, silky bass intro start up from her room when the parents get wild… they will either love it or will die laughing. Either way she can follow up with a request for noise-canceling headphones to a receptive audience.
She was visiting him and he didn't tell you? And was distant when he met you? That sounds like behavior of someone who knows he did something not ok. Sounds like their relationship is a bit closer than just friends. They may not sleep together, but if he intentionally doesn't even mentions seeing his best friend and having fun, that sounds like lying by omission. Why would he hide that he was having a good time with his friend? Most people would tell you about what they did recently that was fun. Why is he distant all of a sudden?
You say he has commitment issues. Are you sure his issue isn't just stringing along girls that he's not planning on being serious with? Maybe it's age, maybe it's his personality, but it doesn't sound like he is willing or mature enough to pursue an adult relationship where he takes relationship boundaries seriously.
I asked my current boyfriend if it was okay if I still remain friends with my ex and he said yes. We share a dachshund together and even if he said he wasn’t comfortable with us remaining friends (that’s a lot different than a person telling me we’re not allowed to be friends), there is no way I’d put up with him telling me he wasn’t allowed to see our dog. You need to stand up for yourself now, or this woman will walk all over you. If she doesn’t like it she can hit the road. If she doesn’t feel comfortable with you being friends with your ex, that’s fine. But she can’t force you to do anything you don’t want to do. That’s not a relationship, that’s a dictatorship.
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