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A divorce will only prolong your issue. Being vulnerable and having emotional or fun conversations with your partner is not changing your personality, it’s the bare minimum to sustain a relationship. If you get a divorce, you’ll either find someone else like you and both of you will have a very superficial connection or you’ll find someone that actually wants a partnership and they will be unsatisfied with your lack of emotional vulnerability as well. That being said, you two need to actually spend time together to get closer. Your kids are in school, maybe you can look into them attending an after school program (CA has free ones for low income parents) and your wife can take up part time work so you can work less and spend time with her? Then, both of you can try to split household labor and childcare more evenly than you are now (I’m assuming bc she’s a stay at home mom she does a lot of the house managing and has a lot of mental load, if that’s not true just ignore).
How much one on one time do y’all get? Maximize how much time that is and really try to just get to know each other. Start from scratch.
You don’t need counseling to become a better partner, communicate even when it’s hard to and you’ll get somewhere.
I've reread my comment several times and I'm failing to see what I said that makes you think I believe OP did something wrong? I don't think that. I'm not critizing him at all.
OPs reaction to his fear was to fight. If he had had a flight or freeze response, it would have been just as understandable.
If it's in regard to me suggesting he get therapy, I think he should get therapy because something fucked up happened to him, not because I think he did anything wrong.
He's gone through a really traumatic event. And now it might result in the end of his relationship. Which is tragic and I hope doesn't happen for him. And even if it does happen, it's not OPs fault, as he did nothing wrong.
But not having done anything wrong doesn't mean he shouldn't seek professional help. That's an understandably scary af situation no matter what gender you are and may be likely to cause some PTSD symptoms, if not full PTSD.
Shes 21 bro. She not gonna listen to you. Just stop replying if its about any guys
Do you still trust him?
He said he was considering working a retail job in the meantime after quitting because he thinks he hit a “dead end”, and he said he'd be “more respected” there too.
\Deep Inhale** HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
This dude is so out of touch though I guess that makes sense since he's been working an office job since his intern days. Good on you for leaving him though I would LOVE to see his reaction upon working retail for like a week.
I know when I have a completely normal conversation with someone over text I too always use a nom de plume for them and purge all records of the conversation at regular intervals.
That's sarcasm, as the op clearly doesn't catch hints, signs, red flags or advice well.